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policia92
March 1st, 2015, 10:31 AM
Im really scared. So for the last 3 years ive allways had fantasies of girls, and stuff, but very lately ive been having gay fantasies. Im 15 btw. The worst thing is that boobs and ass dont turn me on, which scares me. Emotionally and sexually girls turn me on, as i alwways had girl crushes. The things im not sure is that whener a good looking guy passes i look at him. It may have to do with me being jealous of how good looking he is. I think my mind is messing with me, telling me i like the guy sexually, even though i would never date a man. Btw i watch all kinds of porn, even gay and straight and they turn me on. Im really scared, could i be gay? Please help me. People say its to do with the gormones but then why dont i get aroused by girls anymore? THopugh i get aroused by my hot female english teacher.

Elysium
March 1st, 2015, 10:32 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

kissban
March 1st, 2015, 10:37 AM
I think.. u bi (or bi-curious)

Vermilion
March 1st, 2015, 10:40 AM
I'd go for bi / bi curious not gay or straight but your the only one that can decide

policia92
March 1st, 2015, 10:41 AM
difference between straight and bicurious?

vipersniper70
March 1st, 2015, 10:45 AM
No u are probably bi curious at the moment
It might just be a phase

tret123
March 1st, 2015, 10:51 AM
It might just be who you are

Vermilion
March 1st, 2015, 10:52 AM
To me straight would mean only interested in women romantically and sexually bi to me is into men and women but it could only be romantically or sexually. So example a guy and guy having sex together but they wouldn't date a guy only girls. A long this line type thing

policia92
March 1st, 2015, 11:01 AM
u mean bi or bicruious ?

DoodleSnap
March 1st, 2015, 06:45 PM
Sexuality can be a very confusing thing for those going through their teenage years, and still has many areas of unknown as a field of psychology. Most people are fairly "curious" throughout puberty, however t is possible you could be bisexual, or just having conflicting feelings as a result of hormones. But only really you can decide. Just as long as you are comfortable in your sexuality, and feel comfortable liking who you like, then labels don't matter that much. They can be quite useful to describe yourself at short notice, but being true to one's-self is much more important. For the record though, I think it sounds like you may be bisexual or bi-curious, as sometimes people like some genders more than others at any one time.

tret123
March 1st, 2015, 07:47 PM
Straight curious

Andy0308
March 2nd, 2015, 09:49 AM
If you don't actually have feelings for guys then maybe you're just curious and even if you are there is no reason to be scared really

policia92
March 2nd, 2015, 06:36 PM
I dont have feelings for guys

Skaterdude1998
March 2nd, 2015, 09:42 PM
First off there is nothing to be scared of man. There is nothing wrong with you. You just have to relax and explore bro. don't try to force your self to like or not like something just go with what feels natural and go from there, i would say your bi curious. You can be straight and just want to see how things feel with dudes and try it and end up being straight or you could end up bi. Either way just be you man.

SethfromMI
March 2nd, 2015, 10:02 PM
I would say bi-curious. and nothing wrong with it

Danny_boi 16
March 2nd, 2015, 10:36 PM
I consider everyone at least bi-curious (even just a little). And than't what we seem to have here. I agree with ^^^ there nothing wrong with that. I wouldn't day your gay or bi, until you've experienced those types for relationships physically and emotionally; and know what's right for you.

runner 19
March 2nd, 2015, 11:08 PM
Im really scared. So for the last 3 years ive allways had fantasies of girls, and stuff, but very lately ive been having gay fantasies. Im 15 btw. The worst thing is that boobs and ass dont turn me on, which scares me. Emotionally and sexually girls turn me on, as i alwways had girl crushes. The things im not sure is that whener a good looking guy passes i look at him. It may have to do with me being jealous of how good looking he is. I think my mind is messing with me, telling me i like the guy sexually, even though i would never date a man. Btw i watch all kinds of porn, even gay and straight and they turn me on. Im really scared, could i be gay? Please help me. People say its to do with the gormones but then why dont i get aroused by girls anymore? THopugh i get aroused by my hot female english teacher.I wouldn't worry your probably bi and you probably just prefer girls. Nothing wrong with liking guys

pjones
March 4th, 2015, 07:28 PM
you know what you are? a 15 year old, still going through puberty and learning about yourself. nothing wrong with that, and really no reason to decide what you are yet.