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mopper
February 26th, 2015, 10:02 PM
So, straight up I'm going to say that I am a very shy person, and will not be mentally able to do much. If you say something that I really don't have the capacity to do, I will tell you that. Thanks.

Well, first I think it would make sense to give some background on myself. So here:

I am 15 years old, I am 6 feet tall and weigh 218 lbs. So you could say I am larger. I am VERY shy, and the person this is about is very outgoing.

So there's this girl who I was pretty rude to in middle school and while I don't think she hated me, she definitely wasn't liking me too much. At the time, I didn't care for her either. However, I recently had a change of heart and became quite interested in her. I cleared things up a few months ago and she said she was okay and hoped we would be friends in the future and stuff like that. One problem: she hasn't said one word to me since then. That was in December.

So basically, I want to talk to her and maybe ask her out, but I never get an opportunity because the only time I see her is on the bus and in English, when she is with all of her friends. If I am going to do this, there can't be people around. How do I do it?

tret123
February 26th, 2015, 10:04 PM
If she with her friends, pull her aside and just tell her what's up... Get her kik and say "i'll kik you" later that night kik her and tell her how you feel about her

mopper
February 26th, 2015, 10:07 PM
If she with her friends, pull her aside and just tell her what's up... Get her kik and say "i'll kik you" later that night kik her and tell her how you feel about her

My shyness literally goes far beyond that. I can hardly talk to someone without them approaching me. It's very difficult and most people don't understand how hard it is.

tret123
February 26th, 2015, 10:15 PM
I know exactly how you feel... I'm kinda in the same situation as you... But hey we gotta grow some balls and go get it! Hey don't miss out on a chance for love... & you can even get a friend to go get her kik for something for you... You know like a wingman

tret123
February 26th, 2015, 10:16 PM
Aye it'll be even better if you had a wingGIRL

mopper
February 26th, 2015, 10:17 PM
I know exactly how you feel... I'm kinda in the same situation as you... But hey we gotta grow some balls and go get it! Hey don't miss out on a chance for love... & you can even get a friend to go get her kik for something for you... You know like a wingman

I'll try that... the wingman thing

mopper
February 26th, 2015, 10:22 PM
I'll try that... the wingman thing

More suggestions are still needed.

Nico11
February 27th, 2015, 01:01 AM
I know exactly how you feel... I'm kinda in the same situation as you... But hey we gotta grow some balls and go get it! Hey don't miss out on a chance for love... & you can even get a friend to go get her kik for something for you... You know like a wingman
i had a crush on a girl and she always used to stick with her friends. But as tret123 said, you gotta grow some balls. You might regret afterwards that you never took a chance. And that will be worse than rejection. Bank on you oppurtunity and go do it.