hurt and confused

[Stephanie 15]

Today when I got home I was crushed. My mom left my dad and me. She just left, I don't know how I feel it's so wierd and I feel numb. Anyone who has had this happen please post and would like to know how you feel and help me.

[JDarling]

I know how you feel, when I was 13 my father just walked out for three months. Thankfully he came back after that, but still had no explanation and refuses to tell me what happened. It just leaves you so confused and wondering if it was your fault. I hope the situation improves for you.

[tret123]

You have to be strong... It's harsh but life moves on... You can't let the tragic moment effect the rest of your life... Sometimes you just don't know the whole story behind everything

[Stephanie 15]

Thank you! I'm trying. I have alot of questions I need answered for my mom. She won't even answer my calls or txt. Right now I hate her for leaving

[BlackParadePixie]

Wow, that is terrible. I'm so sorry! She didn't leave a note or anything?

[Beth]

Today when I got home I was crushed. My mom left my dad and me. She just left, I don't know how I feel it's so wierd and I feel numb. Anyone who has had this happen please post and would like to know how you feel and help me.
Wow I'm so sorry for you loss and pain. I'm sure the hurt goes beyond the confusion as I have gone through similarities. My mother and dad divorced shortly after my brother was born. I was about 8 years old and I was more confused than hurt but now have a better understanding of the reason. Again I hope things work out for you.

[Stephanie 15]

Wow I'm so sorry for you loss and pain. I'm sure the hurt goes beyond the confusion as I have gone through similarities. My mother and dad divorced shortly after my brother was born. I was about 8 years old and I was more confused than hurt but now have a better understanding of the reason. Again I hope things work out for you.

Thank you, yes I think I'm more confused as to why she left. I feel hurt, pissed, confusion.

Wow, that is terrible. I'm so sorry! She didn't leave a note or anything?

Yes she left a note saying sorry that she couldn't be here anymore that she loved me and hope that I could forgive her someday. I was like forgive her, she left me, how can I forgive that. She left my dad, why? I'm wondering why would you leave, I thought we were a happy family, I can be a bitch sometimes, but why leave? Was or is there someone or something eles that is more important than your daughter, or my dad? We're you not happy? What about my happiness or dad's happiness? Why are you so self centered and always thinking you or whatever? I'm hurt, pissed, and confused! I apologize to everyone for this rant, and if I offend someone I'm sorry was not my intention, I had to let it go somewhere instead of holding it in.
Thank you for everyone's comments.

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[Dalcourt]

Yes she left a note saying sorry that she couldn't be here anymore that she loved me and hope that I could forgive her someday. I was like forgive her, she left me, how can I forgive that. She left my dad, why? I'm wondering why would you leave, I thought we were a happy family, I can be a bitch sometimes, but why leave? Was or is there someone or something eles that is more important than your daughter, or my dad? We're you not happy? What about my happiness or dad's happiness? Why are you so self centered and always thinking you or whatever? I'm hurt, pissed, and confused! I apologize to everyone for this rant, and if I offend someone I'm sorry was not my intention, I had to let it go somewhere instead of holding it in.
Thank you for everyone's comments.

It's okay to rant. Just let our feelings out, it's better than bottle everything up.

My mother left when I was a baby, so I don't remember her or anything that happened back then. But I often ask my self why she left, I guess I will never know.

Anyway, I wish you and your Dad all the best.

[Abhorrence]

My dad kind of disappeared on me when I was 6, moved 150 miles away without telling anyone. Stayed there until I was 12. Let's just say I have no interest in seeing him anymore.