View Full Version : Does he like me as more than a friend?
Emoore
February 25th, 2015, 08:45 PM
Ok the other day my guy friend took my seat when I got up for a second and so when I got back and he wouldn't get up I hit him with the notebook I was holding (we are just friends and I never considered anything more but do you think I came across as flirting by doing that?). Anyways he just kind of looked at me smiling and then like tickled my thigh. Then a couple days later I was sitting on a table and he sat on the table too and sat right behind me and ended up tickling my side and goes "Ohh she's ticklish there" as if that was like good to know. The thing is I've only seen him tickling one girl before and he kind of liked her at the time but it ended up not working out between them. We haven't been friends for more than six months but do you think he likes me? I'm confused with my own feelings right now too, whenever he first tickled me I started thinking about him
as more than a friend and I never have before. I can't get him out of my head now ever since he touched me, it's like the touch sparked something in me that I never noticed. Idk does this make sense?
SethfromMI
February 25th, 2015, 09:30 PM
I think it is very possible he has some interest in you
Atom
February 25th, 2015, 09:55 PM
Yes, it is very possible that he has an eye on you ;)
Stephanie 15
February 26th, 2015, 12:10 AM
I think he does, so ask him if he likes you, or flirt with him and see what happens.
Atom
February 26th, 2015, 01:52 AM
ask him if he likes you
I would not advise that, this might scare him away. He is a shy one if he chooses to tease a person (tickle in our case) instead of openly flirting and stuff like that.
Straya
February 26th, 2015, 01:57 AM
Ok the other day my guy friend took my seat when I got up for a second and so when I got back and he wouldn't get up I hit him with the notebook I was holding (we are just friends and I never considered anything more but do you think I came across as flirting by doing that?). Anyways he just kind of looked at me smiling and then like tickled my thigh. Then a couple days later I was sitting on a table and he sat on the table too and sat right behind me and ended up tickling my side and goes "Ohh she's ticklish there" as if that was like good to know. The thing is I've only seen him tickling one girl before and he kind of liked her at the time but it ended up not working out between them. We haven't been friends for more than six months but do you think he likes me? I'm confused with my own feelings right now too, whenever he first tickled me I started thinking about him
as more than a friend and I never have before. I can't get him out of my head now ever since he touched me, it's like the touch sparked something in me that I never noticed. Idk does this make sense?
i think he likes you and if your starting to have feelings for him too then flirt back
Stephanie 15
February 26th, 2015, 02:36 AM
I would not advise that, this might scare him away. He is a shy one if he chooses to tease a person (tickle in our case) instead of openly flirting and stuff like that.
That's why I also said flirt with him!
JamesSuperBoy
February 26th, 2015, 08:14 AM
Ok the other day my guy friend took my seat when I got up for a second and so when I got back and he wouldn't get up I hit him with the notebook I was holding (we are just friends and I never considered anything more but do you think I came across as flirting by doing that?). Anyways he just kind of looked at me smiling and then like tickled my thigh. Then a couple days later I was sitting on a table and he sat on the table too and sat right behind me and ended up tickling my side and goes "Ohh she's ticklish there" as if that was like good to know. The thing is I've only seen him tickling one girl before and he kind of liked her at the time but it ended up not working out between them. We haven't been friends for more than six months but do you think he likes me? I'm confused with my own feelings right now too, whenever he first tickled me I started thinking about him
as more than a friend and I never have before. I can't get him out of my head now ever since he touched me, it's like the touch sparked something in me that I never noticed. Idk does this make sense?
always hard to say one way or the other - but freindships can grow to love or an attraction.
Emoore
February 26th, 2015, 09:40 PM
I guess I'm just afraid of rejection or paranoid but is it worth the risk of our friendship?
indoxyl
February 26th, 2015, 11:55 PM
If he doesn't want to be friends with you after finding out that you like him then he obviously isn't a very good friend.
Emoore
February 27th, 2015, 08:12 PM
Ok someone recently brought something to my attention so here is a little updated information for my original post:
Okay well I suppose there was a time when I had started thinking about him, but it freaked me out whenever it popped into my head so I forced those thoughts out, and then they resurfaced through all of this. Is it possible he's just being a friend? I have also noticed that he posts pictures of his other friend, whom I know but not personally, and says how pretty she is, however she has a boyfriend and he doesn't talk about her ever. But she's you know average pretty like me I suppose. So I guess it makes me doubt myself... I've always done that though because I don't feel like people could like me in that way. But seeing these posts make me jealous for some reason even though I'm still confused about these feelings I'm having again. I hadn't realized it but yes, I think feelings were starting to develop quite a while ago but I refused to let myself dwell on it further. Now they are back and as much as I try I can't get them to go away this time.
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