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rachel_ballet
February 25th, 2015, 01:01 AM
This is something I've never really thought I'd have to consider!
I've always thought that I was straight. I have an awesome BF that treats me like the princess that I know I am (yeah, I know! That's a stuck up comment! LOL!).
But tonight after ballet class, in our small changing room, my BFF Heather kinda came on to me! She knows about a lot of the stress I've been having recently with my cousin dying, family stuff and so on. I won't go in to a lot of detail, because I don't want to get in trouble on here, but it started out as a hug and went a little farther! And I liked it!
On the way home from ballet class, Heather sat in the back with me and my other BFF, Sarah sat in front with her dad, who was dropping Heather and I off to her house. Heather held my hand the whole way home. I could have pulled away, but I didn't. When my BF got off work and picked me up from Heather's to take me home, I was really quiet with him. Usually I'm not. He never questioned it! Now that I'm home in my room by myself, I am an emotional roller coaster! All I can keep asking myself is "what happened tonight?"
Does this mean I am Bi or just Bi Curious?

Vermilion
February 25th, 2015, 01:50 AM
I'm not that sure if you find yourself attached to her or other girls then I would say your bi. But I think your more likely bi curious, a lot of people experiment so I wouldn't worry about it. If you feel bad for what happened you could explain it to your bf, I'm sure he'll understand.

DoodleSnap
February 28th, 2015, 05:16 PM
I think that most people would be described as curious in some form or another at this age, but you very well could be bisexual. However, being comfortable with your own sexuality, and liking whoever you want to like is much more important than adhering perfectly to society's labels. But before going any further, you really need to sort out what is happening with your boyfriend. Communicate with him and you'll have no problems.
Hope all goes well.