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[raven_student]

so i have this close friend of mine, who has this crush on a friend of mine for over a while now (almost 3yeats) they were a "couple" 2 years ago, ans since she dumped him, he has fallen hard for her. i might say that a couplenof weeks later she was seeing another guy, which hurt my friend feelings a lot.
i am close friend of both of them, and he wants to go out with her again, and i have talked to her about it and she says theres no way she will take him back. but he stills wants to try, as a good friend (i think) i have tried to convice him to stop trying and move on, its been almost two years now! and i have tell him that she will broke his hearth if he continues to try. but he just doesnt listen
i want both of them to be happy, specially my friend whom i dont want to see hurt.
any advice on this?

[JamesSuperBoy]

I think he has to hear the girls opinion for himself from her directly.

[WengMan3397]

Don't put yourself in the middle like that. It's the worst to see your buddy or anyone you care about hurting, but it doesn't sound like this is going to work out. Given that you are close to both of them maybe you could talk as a group? But even then idk.... is this girl like really dead set against him? It might be best to let him know as his bro and encourage him to move out, help him find another girl, etc.

[raven_student]

Don't put yourself in the middle like that. It's the worst to see your buddy or anyone you care about hurting, but it doesn't sound like this is going to work out. Given that you are close to both of them maybe you could talk as a group? But even then idk.... is this girl like really dead set against him? It might be best to let him know as his bro and encourage him to move out, help him find another girl, etc.

idk if talking as a group will help....
i think so, i've talked to her about it a million times andshebhas have some bad experiences with second chances so she doesnt believe in them anymore
i have done that! every day i talk to him about moving on, i have told him that i can introduce him to new girls, he just doesnt listen to me

[WengMan3397]

idk if talking as a group will help....
i think so, i've talked to her about it a million times andshebhas have some bad experiences with second chances so she doesnt believe in them anymore
i have done that! every day i talk to him about moving on, i have told him that i can introduce him to new girls, he just doesnt listen to me

Yea, that's the worst. When someone sorta becomes upset. It's tough man, but your job is to be a good buddy but not to like enable him and stuff. Idk what to say though. sucks :-(

[raven_student]

Yea, that's the worst. When someone sorta becomes upset. It's tough man, but your job is to be a good buddy but not to like enable him and stuff. Idk what to say though. sucks :-(

i know, its like a really complicated situation :') and thats what im trying haha but i think i will only have to wait and see

[Straya]

i think hes gonn ahve to learn the hard way when she tells him she dosent want him back. if he dosent wanna listen to you then thats the only other option. hes gonna hurt either way but better he finds out sooner than later that it aint gonna happen