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Deceptica
February 23rd, 2015, 02:04 PM
Im not quite.. Sure. Ive always acted like a boy. I purrfer to sit with my legs spread, my hair short, my voice low. Im biologically a girl and im okay with that, and im not sure if im a boy or a girl, or both? Help me purrlease?
Thunderstorm
February 25th, 2015, 08:47 PM
There are a few question marks that go up for me in what you are saying. First of all, you can't just make your voice law without some sort of medication or surgery. You can fake a low voice, but unless you have a naturally low voice or have gone through voice changes like a male you are biologically female.
Sitting with your legs spread and having short hair is just stereotypical. That means nothing.
You identify as Bigender in your bio. I think you're biologically a girl and mentally a boy. It doesn't seem like it fluctuates, so you probably aren't Genderqueer.
James Dean
February 26th, 2015, 03:56 AM
Understand that gender roles and actions are what you make of them. It sounds very complex I know, but I have faith that you will become comfortable and safe. Over time, you should learn to adapt to your feelings and what makes you happy. Don't worry about the acceptance of others, but the acceptance of yourself.
I would also suggest talking to a gender specialist psychologist too as that could help with any transgender or intersex issues you may be having.
DoodleSnap
February 28th, 2015, 05:05 PM
Understand that gender roles and actions are what you make of them. It sounds very complex I know, but I have faith that you will become comfortable and safe. Over time, you should learn to adapt to your feelings and what makes you happy. Don't worry about the acceptance of others, but the acceptance of yourself.
I would also suggest talking to a gender specialist psychologist too as that could help with any transgender or intersex issues you may be having.
All of what I have to say lies above.
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