Please help!!!!! Urgent!!

[Erect]

I am not going to lie. I am 16, and I was talking to this 17 year old girl. She had started sending nudes to me, and she wanted me to send them back. After awhile I did. She did keep it to herself for a week. Then, she went off and sent them off to one of my friends. Which I have class on Monday with, for my very first class. I am not sure what to do. Please help me.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I am not going to lie. I am 16, and I was talking to this 17 year old girl. She had started sending nudes to me, and she wanted me to send them back. After awhile I did. She did keep it to herself for a week. Then, she went off and sent them off to one of my friends. Which I have class on Monday with, for my very first class. I am not sure what to do. Please help me.

I am not sure you can do anything except learn from this. I dont mean to sound harsh but you can maybe contact this friend and ask about it if he is a friend he will say nothing. I dont think it is a good idead to send pics and your experience confirms this.

[Erect]

I am not sure you can do anything except learn from this. I dont mean to sound harsh but you can maybe contact this friend and ask about it if he is a friend he will say nothing. I dont think it is a good idead to send pics and your experience confirms this.

But what if he shows my other friends? I am way too scared for this.

[StoppingTime]

But what if he shows my other friends? I am way too scared for this.

Then you should've thought twice before sending them at all, honestly. There's a lot of risk involved in sending such images (especially since both of you are under 18, making it technically illegal), and now you know the full effect of that. I doubt any of your friends will say anything to you honestly...I'm not sure why they'd want to. But if they do there's not much you can do about it other than hoping that it just goes away sooner than later. There's no reason to try and "get back" and that girl (i.e. DON'T do the same thing to her), though considering she's clearly betrayed your trust I'd say it's a good idea to stay away from her.

[Failed Algebra]

you shouldn't send anybody any pics that you would worry about. you just can't rely on some girl to not send stuff. all u can do is talk to your friend and ask him to please delete it. but do it now before he gets it.

[Erect]

Then you should've thought twice before sending them at all, honestly. There's a lot of risk involved in sending such images (especially since both of you are under 18, making it technically illegal), and now you know the full effect of that. I doubt any of your friends will say anything to you honestly...I'm not sure why they'd want to. But if they do there's not much you can do about it other than hoping that it just goes away sooner than later. There's no reason to try and "get back" and that girl (i.e. DON'T do the same thing to her), though considering she's clearly betrayed your trust I'd say it's a good idea to stay away from her.
Naw, I am staying away from her. Since in practicality since it is illegal and he says anything, then I'm taking us all down. It was my first time doing this. She has no more trust me and that girl blocked. I mean I have nothing to be embarrassed about. I just don't want jokes at our table and whatnot and not going around the school.

you shouldn't send anybody any pics that you would worry about. you just can't rely on some girl to not send stuff. all u can do is talk to your friend and ask him to please delete it. but do it now before he gets it.

He already has it. If he keeps it on his phone to bribe me, then looks like we are all becoming sex offenders. :P :cool:


Merged Double Post. -StoppingTime

[Hermes]

It is unfortuntately the case that with digital pictures making copies is so easy once a picture is "in the wild" it is almost impossible to capture it again, i.e. ensure no further distribution.

On the other hand if you are under the relevant age for where you live distributing the picture would be illegal so hopefully the girl and the guy she forwarded it to will avoid publishing it anywhere public.

So now you know who not to trust and for the future it is best that if a picture features your privates it does not feature your face and vice verce.

[mattsmith48]

I am not going to lie. I am 16, and I was talking to this 17 year old girl. She had started sending nudes to me, and she wanted me to send them back. After awhile I did. She did keep it to herself for a week. Then, she went off and sent them off to one of my friends. Which I have class on Monday with, for my very first class. I am not sure what to do. Please help me.

you shoudnt send nudes wtv your age its a bad idea cuz you know someone else is gonna see the pics

[SethfromMI]

Naw, I am staying away from her. Since in practicality since it is illegal and he says anything, then I'm taking us all down. It was my first time doing this. She has no more trust me and that girl blocked. I mean I have nothing to be embarrassed about. I just don't want jokes at our table and whatnot and not going around the school.



He already has it. If he keeps it on his phone to bribe me, then looks like we are all becoming sex offenders. :P :cool:


Merged Double Post. -StoppingTime

you make a screen name called Erect. you first say you are worried about the nudes getting out but not are saying you have nothing to be embarrassed about if they see them. which is it

and I would say learn your lesson and don't send them anymore, but I am not sure if you have or haven't

[RandAnonPers]

This just shows how much damage just one seemingly harmless photo can do. You have dug yourself into a hole that unfortunately you cant get out of. Hopefully you will learn from your mistakes and move one.

[nklarke]

Once you sent something through Internet, is not anymore under your control.

[Zachary G]

Then you should've thought twice before sending them at all, honestly. There's a lot of risk involved in sending such images (especially since both of you are under 18, making it technically illegal), and now you know the full effect of that. I doubt any of your friends will say anything to you honestly...I'm not sure why they'd want to. But if they do there's not much you can do about it other than hoping that it just goes away sooner than later. There's no reason to try and "get back" and that girl (i.e. DON'T do the same thing to her), though considering she's clearly betrayed your trust I'd say it's a good idea to stay away from her.

A very good point here. Next time think twice about it before you do it.

[Leprous]

You should never send nudes to people who you cannot trust to the fullest. You should learn from this, never trust everyone, especially when it comes to things like these, be more carefull next time.

[Jtyler]

That's wha happenes