fidder
February 22nd, 2015, 06:03 AM
It is currently 2:47 as i type this, i have sitting in bed playing games on my laptop for about 9 hours now waiting for my ldr gf to text me. Now to you this might be a typical "maybe she's busy" but its not, this is how my past 7 weekends have been. Why? because she does not have her own phone even though she's 16. We met over a game we both used to play and well obviously got attracted to each other, after 2 months of getting to know each other more and falling in love. We decided to start texting which tuned out awesome and eventually had phone calls and video chats. But 2 months ago she has been getting grounded from what she tells me because she talks back to her mother. This had happened before but not every weekend, to me it seems scheduled but i could just be paranoid of course.
I've tried asking her if she's stressed or annoyed by her parents or siblings or even me but no, she says that she does it in the heat of the moment. we've tried getting her a phone but she can't because her mom says she's too young for one. (even though she's a straight A student and is 16 and never gotten in trouble in anyway) At the moment she uses her sisters phone after school.
I always try to reply to her, i reply instantly 95% of the time unless i'm showering or doing chores. I have never disrespected her and if we ever argue it is because of my problem with her not being able to talk to me, i understand she can't do much because i've been there before. I've asked her if she thinks i'm too needy and she says she does but that it is fine with her and that she loves it unless maybe she was just being nice about it. I've told her that if she ever does find another person who she can actually see and love that it was somewhat ok with me and that we could move on with our lives and she always says that she would never do that to me or anyone else because she's had it happen to her (so have i). My question is what can i do to help myself go through this? I just can't seem to go a whole day without to her because i start over thinking and getting paranoid. This is driving me crazy honestly, i've thought about breaking up with her but i know that this is just a bump on the road or us, this is the only problem we've had in our relationship of 9 months so far.
Any advice is appreciated :)
I've tried asking her if she's stressed or annoyed by her parents or siblings or even me but no, she says that she does it in the heat of the moment. we've tried getting her a phone but she can't because her mom says she's too young for one. (even though she's a straight A student and is 16 and never gotten in trouble in anyway) At the moment she uses her sisters phone after school.
I always try to reply to her, i reply instantly 95% of the time unless i'm showering or doing chores. I have never disrespected her and if we ever argue it is because of my problem with her not being able to talk to me, i understand she can't do much because i've been there before. I've asked her if she thinks i'm too needy and she says she does but that it is fine with her and that she loves it unless maybe she was just being nice about it. I've told her that if she ever does find another person who she can actually see and love that it was somewhat ok with me and that we could move on with our lives and she always says that she would never do that to me or anyone else because she's had it happen to her (so have i). My question is what can i do to help myself go through this? I just can't seem to go a whole day without to her because i start over thinking and getting paranoid. This is driving me crazy honestly, i've thought about breaking up with her but i know that this is just a bump on the road or us, this is the only problem we've had in our relationship of 9 months so far.
Any advice is appreciated :)