Can't Orgasm, Help!!!

[masterj]

Hey,

Have been masturbating since 11 years old. I have ejaculated and everything, sometimes more than once. The only thing I have trouble with is orgasning. I have never been able to! I am uncut and pretty big. I have tried everything. Sometimes I feel like something is going to happen but then I just pee.
I once masturbated for 3 hours straight and still nothing
Does anyone have any advice or help? thanks

I am now 15

[Straya]

you might have to talk to a doctor about this one man

[boytoynamedtroy]

Hey,

Have been masturbating since 11 years old. I have ejaculated and everything, sometimes more than once. The only thing I have trouble with is orgasning. I have never been able to! I am uncut and pretty big. I have tried everything. Sometimes I feel like something is going to happen but then I just pee.
I once masturbated for 3 hours straight and still nothing
Does anyone have any advice or help? thanks

I am now 15

you might have to talk to a doctor about this one man

If you've had it for quite some time now, then I guess you should really consult a physician about it. You might have a problem.

[FameMonster]

Hey,

Have been masturbating since 11 years old. I have ejaculated and everything, sometimes more than once. The only thing I have trouble with is orgasning. I have never been able to! I am uncut and pretty big. I have tried everything. Sometimes I feel like something is going to happen but then I just pee.
I once masturbated for 3 hours straight and still nothing
Does anyone have any advice or help? thanks

I am now 15

If you are ejaculating, most likely you are having an orgasm.- although they are two separate things. Maybe you just dont feel the orgasm. Not everyone has toe-curling, moaning orgasms as depicted in porn and on line.

Try not masturbating for a few days and just take your time when you do it again. Not really sure if there is anything a medical professional can do if all the "plumbing" is working.

[Hermes]

Your post is a little confusing. I wonder if you understand all the terms exactly, so:

Orgasm is the intensely pleasurable feeling you get at the climax of sexual activity including masturbation. Somne orgasms are better than others and may vary from one person to another but an orgasm will always feel good.

Ejaculation is where cum (semen) spurts out of you penis. Usually this happens at the same time as orgasm but it is possible to orgasm without ejaculating if either you are not developed enough to or if you have ejaculated several times in a short period of time and have thus temporarily used up all your semen.

So I am wondering if you have these terms the right way round? If it wasn't for you saying you had ejaculated before I'd say check carefully when you say you get the feeling something is about to happen and then you "pee". The tingling sensation of being about to pee is very similar to the sensation of being about to cum and obviously peeing and ejaculation both include feeling liquid travelling along your penis and out the end. Apart from ejaculation usually being accompanied by orgasm there are other differences too. Ejaculation happens in discrete spurts, even if they don't go very far while peeing tends to be a continuous stream. Pee has a consistency close to water and, unless you have been drinking loads, tends to have a yellow colour. Semen varies - at it's thinnest it is still noticably thicker than water and it can be as thick as jelly or anything in between. Semen can also be anything from clear to white depending on various factors. Only rarely would semen be yellow, usually if you have not ejaculated for ages.

If you had said you didn't reach orgasm no matter how long you stroke, that it feels like you're nearly there but nothing happens, no burst of pleasure and nothing coming out then I'd wonder if you are on anti-depressants as some of these can prevent orgasm.

[masterj]

Your post is a little confusing. I wonder if you understand all the terms exactly, so:

Orgasm is the intensely pleasurable feeling you get at the climax of sexual activity including masturbation. Somne orgasms are better than others and may vary from one person to another but an orgasm will always feel good.

Ejaculation is where cum (semen) spurts out of you penis. Usually this happens at the same time as orgasm but it is possible to orgasm without ejaculating if either you are not developed enough to or if you have ejaculated several times in a short period of time and have thus temporarily used up all your semen.

So I am wondering if you have these terms the right way round? If it wasn't for you saying you had ejaculated before I'd say check carefully when you say you get the feeling something is about to happen and then you "pee". The tingling sensation of being about to pee is very similar to the sensation of being about to cum and obviously peeing and ejaculation both include feeling liquid travelling along your penis and out the end. Apart from ejaculation usually being accompanied by orgasm there are other differences too. Ejaculation happens in discrete spurts, even if they don't go very far while peeing tends to be a continuous stream. Pee has a consistency close to water and, unless you have been drinking loads, tends to have a yellow colour. Semen varies - at it's thinnest it is still noticably thicker than water and it can be as thick as jelly or anything in between. Semen can also be anything from clear to white depending on various factors. Only rarely would semen be yellow, usually if you have not ejaculated for ages.

If you had said you didn't reach orgasm no matter how long you stroke, that it feels like you're nearly there but nothing happens, no burst of pleasure and nothing coming out then I'd wonder if you are on anti-depressants as some of these can prevent orgasm.

I'm not on any pills, and have my definitions the right way around :(

[Lovemelons]

I don't know I'm sorry I haven't ever had this issue you should probably talk to your Doc.

[Hermes]

I'm not on any pills, and have my definitions the right way around :(

That just makes it very odd then. I have heard of people mistaking ejaculating for peeing and I have heard of people having several orgasms in a row when they still have dry orgasms but I have never heard of someone ejaculating several times in a row without having an orgasm.

Unless you are simply not recognising the orgasms for what it is then it is probably time to consult your doctor.

[Orgo]

You might need to try experimenting a bit more with yourself, maybe play with your ass or masturbate with objects, rub against stuff etc

[RandAnonPers]

Keep trying I guess, if nothing happens, you might need to consult a doctor.

[WengMan3397]

Take a break for a few days then come back to it?

[mattsmith48]

go see a doctor might be something wrong with you

[Tyson S]

You may not be actually feeling it. It may be there but not there. Get what I mean?

[Txfri1350]

You should probably go to your doc. I work in the ER and we have had a patient come in with something like you... (U didn't hear this from men hahaha)

[TalenD]

I'd take a break for a few days then if it doesn't happen then you might want to consult your physician like everyone else said.

[masterj]

You might need to try experimenting a bit more with yourself, maybe play with your ass or masturbate with objects, rub against stuff etc

I already do all that, I really enjoy it but feel like I am missing out when it comes to the pleasurable end

[masterj]

I'd take a break for a few days then if it doesn't happen then you might want to consult your physician like everyone else said.

I took a 2 month break and still nothing

[Meh Guy]

Doctor would be your best bet. Especially if you feel like it's going to happen and you pee instead. Your body isn't supposed to do that.

[NewZealand]

Hey,

Have been masturbating since 11 years old. I have ejaculated and everything, sometimes more than once. The only thing I have trouble with is orgasning. I have never been able to! I am uncut and pretty big. I have tried everything. Sometimes I feel like something is going to happen but then I just pee.
I once masturbated for 3 hours straight and still nothing
Does anyone have any advice or help? thanks

I am now 15

Does it feel good when you ejaculate? Or nothing at all?

[masterj]

Does it feel good when you ejaculate? Or nothing at all?

It just feels like something is coming out. It is kind of reliving but I know it isnt an orgasm

[NewZealand]

It just feels like something is coming out. It is kind of reliving but I know it isnt an orgasm

Do you go soft afterwards :)?