maser196
February 20th, 2015, 08:32 PM
I have been talking to this girl for the last 14 months. I have had a crush on her the entire time and just found out she feels the same way. We had our first date yesterday and we kissed, made out, cuddled, and did other things. We both have admitted we love the other and want to be together. Shortly after dropping her off i recieved a text from her saying that she wanted to just be friends because she doesnt wanna risk the friendship due to a gut feeling that we wouldnt last long. Her past relationships have given this because they always ended up with her hurt and her losing the people because i have been there for most of the breakups. I have spent the last day trying to convince her that im not like that and that she needs to take the risk but she does not believ me.I am madly in love with her and have been for half a year now. I know she had a good time yesterday but she just doesnt want to risk the chance of me and her breaking up with the nasty breakups she has always had. Especially because she says im the cloest guy friend she has ever had and that she cannot lose meShe has always talked about wanting flowers from a guy because she has never recieved them and i planned to do that tomorrow, do i just drop them off or knock because i wouldnt know what to say? Do i give her what she wants and wait for another chance or do i keep trying? Any advice would be great because i cannot sleep at night and i cannot stop having break down