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Thaliacea
February 20th, 2015, 09:01 AM
Ok so i am posting a lot here about my relationship , kinda embarrassed now , but it is only place i can get help :D :$

Anyway , i am in a relationship for a month. It is normal , healthy relationship , everything is great.

But , he is having problem with trust. Let me explain it :
He said he had problems in relationship , cause the other side doesn't believe him . So he is telling me everything , when , with whom and where he was. I mean it is okay for me , i trust him , but i want him to be more comfortable with me. I told him many times that he doesn't need to do that as i am not of person who thinks that jealousy is proof that someone care (it is wrong on so many levels to think that) . But still , he is a bit insecure of this.

So , do you think i should just leave it be , or bother him more to be relaxed .
Thank you guys :)

Thunderstorm
February 20th, 2015, 12:19 PM
Just make sure he knows that you trust him. I think he thinks you don't believe anything he says and he doesn't want to lose you. Maybe you did something that he took as a sign that you didn't trust him.

Thaliacea
February 20th, 2015, 01:13 PM
Just make sure he knows that you trust him. I think he thinks you don't believe anything he says and he doesn't want to lose you. Maybe you did something that he took as a sign that you didn't trust him.

Hmmm i don't know , but i stated to him that i trust him , many times , but time will show it i guess.

Can't remember of anything , we never had "jealousy" moments