Friendless

[TrentTheEeveeLover]

So i know alot of people say "oh i have no friends." But i litteraly only have my "girlfriend" (were on a break read my other post). Is anyone else completley alone besidea a girlfriend or a boyfriend? Is it normal..? Sometimes i wish i had people to talk to but i dont leave the house unless im going to smoke a cig Or to go with my girlfriend/family. So i dont go out to make friends. Just rambling at this point but how can i make friends? I havent had a friend (besides my "girlfriend" in about 3 years..

[Lottie]

I'm in completly the same situation. My boyfriend is the only person in the whole world that i can talk to about anything. Sometimes i feel so alone i cant stand it. I dont really know how you can make friends but i really hope things work out for you.

[Dalcourt]

I know how you feel. My Dad and I move around a lot so I have to go to a different school quite often and I'm always the new kid. So I guess I don't really have friends...someone I'm really close to and can talk about things besides the normal small talk stuff.

You only can try to make friends when you are open and talk to people I guess that's at least what works for me to get to know people. But if this strategy works to gain long term friendship I cannot say cuz I usually don't live in one place long enough to find out.

I hope it works out for you, though, and if you like you can always chat with me, lol.

[Abhorrence]

For a while last year I pushed all of my friends away. I couldn't stand to be around anyone and when I finally started to feel better within myself I truly felt what it was like to be alone. I had nobody, not a girlfriend, not any friends and I barely talk to my family. It took a while but I finally got people back. The feeling of loneliness and not being able to do anything about it really fucking sucked.

[CreativeUsername]

I guess I don't really have friends. Not even a gf. I'm homeschooled because of anxiety and I talk text people much.

[Melodic]

Yeah, I was in this situation before in 2012. I pushed a bunch of my friends away and now my two only close friends of mine are exes. I hope soon to find some activities around town so I can gain back some friends.

[Celtics]

Yeah, I have no one besides "family"

[RandAnonPers]

Making friends isn't all that easy, but there are ways to make it seem less difficult. Try going to places where you will find people with similar interests. EX) if you like to work out, go to the gym,
if you like art, go to a museum,
if you like pets, go to a dog park.....XD
As cheesy as it sounds, it may be true.

Once you are at a place where you are around people with similar interests, then you have to associate yourself with others. Just simple conversations, such as the weather, or the latest video game, or who died yesterday.

There is no guarantee on how the situation will end up, but sometimes, you have to open up and take a chance and make friends yourself, instead of waiting for them to come to you.

And if all fails, You still have friendless, antisocial, little ole me. XD