On a break

[TrentTheEeveeLover]

So my "ex girlfriend" i guess we can call her. Says she wants a break. Now ive never said yes to a break before because everyone i knew that went on breaks never got back together. So here i am on a break its been about a week or so. Shes stopped texting me and started to shut her phone off. When we hang out if i ask to check her phone she yells at me and hides her phone. Should i be worried that shes found someone else? I really like this girl. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[Paladino]

If you weren't together long I don't think asking to see her phone is a good idea maybe it gives off signs that you don't trust her and maybe that was the issue, you need to get a certain level of trust/comfort before you/your partner are comfortable at looking at each others phones where it isn't a problem for the other person if you are on their phone, I didn't like "check" her phone but if I looked at it or went on it for whatever innocent reason, there was no problem there. Ask her to speak to you & tell you what the issue is because there is no greater pain than no clarity! It hurts more & gives you a confused feeling and can sometimes leave people feeling insecure & clarity helps you get over it easier as its easier to understand where it went wrong, hope this helps. PS how long were you together?

[matt_tgr]

Depends on how long you've been together. But if she's so paranoid about you taking her phone, i guess she does have spmething to hide. Now I don't know about the break bit. It just never works i think

[Straya]

its over a break is just an easy way out where she didnt have to come out and say it was over

[Melodic]

"Let's a break" is the same as "But we can still be friends". It's an easy way out of a relationship and rarely does a break or a friendship come out of it.

[Vermilion]

As harsh as it is its probably over, me and my ex went on a break we didn't talk for months (4 or so )
Then we started talking again but we both knew by then it was over. We still talk sometime but I find it harder that way cos it gets my hopes up. Maybe it will be different for you but I doubt it .