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madmike
April 2nd, 2008, 09:31 PM
Ok so for a while now I have had a problem with keeping an erection. I can keep one fine when my girlfriend gives me head or other activities but if at any point stimulation stops i lose an erection almost immediately. My erection is at a very low angle and basically points towards the ground. If I do nothing it will go away very fast. I was wondering if normally during an erection is maintains its angle by itself. The only way i can get any angle is to contract my pelvic muscles and i feel like it should just be erect and hard and raised on its own. Could my low erection angle be the reason i don't keep erections? Please give me some thoughts its really really frustrating situation and i dont know much of what to do. My doctor thinks its psychological and i believe it may be partially due to that but could it have such drastic effects as to cause my erection to have no angle at all? PLEASE HELP

Hauptmann Kauffman
April 2nd, 2008, 09:35 PM
The angle really doesnt matter, and I think your doctor is right. It really probably is phsycological, you just need to relax and focus on the girl, not the need to keep it up!

Avnd
April 3rd, 2008, 01:47 AM
thats true angle doesnt matter n abt the losing of erection after stimulation stops...i think its normal cauz it happens 4 me too........

RaisingSand
April 3rd, 2008, 02:02 AM
The angle really doesnt matter, and I think your doctor is right. It really probably is phsycological, you just need to relax and focus on the girl, not the need to keep it up!

Took the words right out of my mouth. :P

Requin
April 3rd, 2008, 10:57 AM
You could try and stand infront of a mirror some people find that that helps. Your doc is your best bet there, try it and ask him again.

The Entertainer
April 3rd, 2008, 02:35 PM
Im pretty sure that it has to be psychological. If you talk to your girlfriend about your worries, im sure that she will understand. If you know your gf understands, then when you are getting head off her, you should feel more relaxed

dogman
April 4th, 2008, 12:36 AM
maybe if you stop thinking about it, it will stay up and go away

BTW stay up (the penis) and go away (the problem)