People about taboos

[Johnny Strange]

I'm really curious so I was looking some post at girls forum and then noticed that there was story about some girl's kind of crush on her cousin or some experimenting with her, so I started to think. Why idea of,,incest'' is so close to people? :confused:

[Meh Guy]

The idea of incest isn't really necessarily that close in people's mind. The fact that teens tend to experiment mixes with family members is because most people can and tend to trust family members more. Plus many don't really consider experimenting "sex" therefore it's not incest to them.

[Uranus]

I agree with what Meh Guy said. It's probably because they trust a family member more than a friend from school. Even though it is still incest, and they are experimenting, I can understand why they would choose a family member. And both obviously trust each other because one was obviously asked and they said yes so, it's probably based on trust

[Johnny Strange]

The idea of incest isn't really necessarily that close in people's mind. The fact that teens tend to experiment mixes with family members is because most people can and tend to trust family members more. Plus many don't really consider experimenting "sex" therefore it's not incest to them.

I always thought that it isn't matter of closeness, but prohibition, forbidding or threats in environment, which makes (adventurer) people more curious... :whoops:

[Meh Guy]

Johnny Strange its probably that too. The forbidden fruit.

[Isabella_]

It's usually a trust thing completely
If a boy shared after/during sex photos happened to you or a friend it could be really scary to want to trust a boy

But what cousin or brother etc would do that?

[suzzysmith2012]

There is definitely a different type and better level of trust with siblings or a cousin what have you, in a consensual and loving relationship whether it is just "experimenting or whether it goes beyond that to something more". Being in love and in a loving relationship with a sibling or cousin definitely brings a different level of trust with it then that which would be in some other type of relationship. At the same time those aren't the majority of people's cup of tea.

[Johnny Strange]

It's usually a trust thing completely
If a boy shared after/during sex photos happened to you or a friend it could be really scary to want to trust a boy

But what cousin or brother etc would do that?

I knew you will answer in this forum...
Yes, there's always that thing. Everybody's argument in incest discussions
is just,,prevention of getting degenerated posterity'', without considering the fact that today's methods of contraception are very effective...
In my opinion, the only counterargument is that permanent bad feeling during the meetings, family celebrations and all places where,,experimental'' cousins could meet...
After all, I like to use that joke,,Incest-it's all relative'', so I shouldn't have argues about that...