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Magnus Bane
February 13th, 2015, 03:46 PM
Okay so my best friend asked me a question the other day... Now he thought he was pansexual but has the wrong idea of what that meant so he is confused. He says that he likes human girls, male and female Furries, and make dogs and male horses and would also get with one. But he doesn't know what that's makes him so he asked me to ask. I'm sorry if this is weird.
James Dean
February 14th, 2015, 06:34 AM
Pansexuality is the attraction towards all genders, and non gender specific individuals.
For example, if you have attraction to people who are transgendered, people who are intersexed (born both male and female), or people who don't classify themselves as male or female, that is considered Pansexual.
There is some debate, that I even agree with sometimes that this is can also be considered Bisexuality, but the proper term is Pansexual. Bisexual I guess can be used as a more common and more well known term.
Now with your situation, I don't know much about the furry community but I don't think that falls under any type of sexuality. I'm not saying that he can't be Pansexual, but I don't want to twist anything.
That seems to be a preference as far as hobbies and interests go. I guess if he is attracted to everyone regardless of their gender and sexuality, that makes him Pansexual.
So that is what pansexuality is, and that is my take on your friends issue. I hope things go well and best of luck. :)
SethfromMI
February 14th, 2015, 08:38 AM
wait he is interested in having sex with animals? that is what we would call bestiality
James Dean
February 14th, 2015, 06:40 PM
wait he is interested in having sex with animals? that is what we would call bestiality
Oh dear, I didn't read his post like that.
I think he's talking about his friend liking furries which are people who wear costumes and suits and things like that of dogs and animals. If not and he's talking about something else, then that's beastiality which is wrong.
vanilla
February 14th, 2015, 11:29 PM
I think that the right term is zoophilia? I could be wrong. It's a paraphilia where you're sexually attracted to animals. I don't think that it could be considered bestiality unless he actually acted upon those desires. :\
SethfromMI
February 15th, 2015, 01:55 PM
Oh dear, I didn't read his post like that.
I think he's talking about his friend liking furries which are people who wear costumes and suits and things like that of dogs and animals. If not and he's talking about something else, then that's beastiality which is wrong.
well that would make more sense if it is people in costumes
Calliope
February 15th, 2015, 02:15 PM
I don't think this has anything to do with sexual orientation, just species. Urban Dictionary confirms that yes, it's zoophilia, and it's only bestiality if he actually has sex with an animal. I don't really see a problem with the furry thing because furries aren't real, but actual animals... well...
Magnus Bane
February 15th, 2015, 03:30 PM
I dontkowif this clears some things up but i meant to put in there that he is sexually attracted to all these things but cant see himself with a guy but he doesnt know if this falls under any sexualities. And if so which one
vanilla
February 16th, 2015, 03:41 AM
Is he attracted to humans at all or only to animals/furries? And of what gender?
Magnus Bane
February 21st, 2015, 12:27 PM
He is sexually attracted to furries (male and female), dogs and horses (male) and humans (female) but is confused caushe doesnt like human guys but doesnt know if any of this falls under a sexuality
JamesSuperBoy
February 21st, 2015, 02:31 PM
Okay so my best friend asked me a question the other day... Now he thought he was pansexual but has the wrong idea of what that meant so he is confused. He says that he likes human girls, male and female Furries, and make dogs and male horses and would also get with one. But he doesn't know what that's makes him so he asked me to ask. I'm sorry if this is weird.
Tell your friend maybe not to worry about labels he can define himself as it goes.
Abhorrence
February 21st, 2015, 05:13 PM
This is confusing as frick and it definitely would be better to just leave labels alone on this one. I have no idea what a furry is and do you mean literal dogs and horses? Tis a bit strange
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