Losing you virginity

[TSUNAMI]

Me and my gf are planning on having sex for the 1st time next weekend and I have a few questions. This survey is for boys girls you can anwser for the guy you lost you virginity too

How old where you:
Was it with a boy or girl:
Where did you have sex:
Did you cum:
How long did you last:
Did she orgasm:
Did you use condoms:
If yes what brand:
Any other protection:
What was your relationship with the other person:
Were you shave down there:
Was she:
How long you been with you partner before having sex:
How did you relationship last after you had sex:
What did you do after you were done:
How did you feel after you were done:

Anything else you want to add:

[Isabella_]

How old where you: he was 15 I was almost 13
Was it with a boy or girl: him n me
Where did you have sex: hotel room on vacation
Did you cum: he did
How long did you last: he did about 10 mins
Did she orgasm: I did twice :)
Did you use condoms: no
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: didn't need
What was your relationship with the other person: very close
Were you shave down there: yes
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: long time
How did you relationship last after you had sex: still close/special
What did you do after you were done: showered and back to sleep
How did you feel after you were done: a bit sore but excited

Anything else you want to add: didn't sleep much that week :P

[suzzysmith2012]

I'm a girl, I'm answering it for him.

How old where you: 12 and a bit
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Our basement
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: 10 minutes approx.
Did she orgasm: Somewhat
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Don't remember
Any other protection: Pulled out
What was your relationship with the other person: First cousin
Were you shaved down there: No, a bit trimmed.
Was she: Yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: No real "official" relationship, interested in each other for several months and fell in love.
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Still together somewhat
What did you do after you were done: Kissed for a bit, and went our separate ways.
How did you feel after you were done: A mix between Wow, and OMG what did we do!

Anything else you want to add: It was totally consensual between us, we fell in love. We still deeply love each other, but are with different people now.

[PinkFloyd]

How old where you: 14
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: my bed
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: like a minute
Did she orgasm: no
Did you use condoms: yes, one.
If yes what brand: Trojan
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: It was a strong boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Were you shave down there: yes
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 4 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: over 2 years until she moved to Spain
What did you do after you were done: Drank a Mountain Dew; it was the greatest Mountain Dew I had ever had, no joke.
How did you feel after you were done: Not to sound all lovestruck and dorky, but I felt a real connestion to het and all I wanted to do was hug her and what not.

Anything else you want to add: Sex should be taken very seriously in a relationship. It's incredibly powerful both mentally and physically. It's important that you actually have strong feelings for the other person and that it's not to just get it over with. All in all, sex is something special and shouldn't be toyed with. Also, use a condom.

[NickC]

How old where you: 13 years old
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: in his car
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: an hour and a half
Did she orgasm: it was a guy, and yes he did
Did you use condoms: YES (ALWAYS USE CONDOMS!!!!)
If yes what brand: Trojan
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: Friends With Benefits
Were you shave down there: i shave on my balls and about my dick (always shave off all your pubic hair! Most girls do not like pubic hair at all!)
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: about a month
How did you relationship last after you had sex: it lasted for a few years
What did you do after you were done: cuddle lol
How did you feel after you were done: amazing, but tired

Anything else you want to add: ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM!!!! If you dont wear one then you can get AIDS or HIV or another Sexually Transmitted Disease!

[Dennis98]

How old where you: 15
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Tunisia
Did you cum: Yes ..
How long did you last: Maybe 1h
Did she orgasm: Yes , if I remember well
Did you use condoms: NO :(
If yes what brand:
Any other protection:
What was your relationship with the other person: Nope
Were you shave down there: Yes
Was she: Yeah
How long you been with you partner before having sex: We were total strangers
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Nothing
What did you do after you were done: Repeat xD
How did you feel after you were done: Tired and drunk .. xD

Anything else you want to add: She got pregnant , so , ALWAYS use condoms ..

[cutie123]

How old where you: we were both 15
Was it with a boy or girl: me and him
Where did you have sex: his living room
Did you cum: yes he did
How long did you last: he lasted like 10 mins
Did she orgasm: yes I did
Did you use condoms: no
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: pull out
What was your relationship with the other person: we were boyfriend and girlfriend
Were you shave down there: no he wasn't
Was she: yes I was
How long you been with you partner before having sex: few months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: for awhile
What did you do after you were done: cuddle bad kiss
How did you feel after you were done: really happy and kinda sore

Anything else you want to add:

[Isabella_]

He might have lost it... but I still have the box it came in ;)

[biancachica]

answering for my bf at the time

How old where you:14
Was it with a boy or girl:girl
Where did you have sex:my bed
Did you cum:yes
How long did you last:5 mins
Did she orgasm: no
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: no idea
Any other protection: the pill
What was your relationship with the other person: bf/gf
Were you shave down there: yes
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 7 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: 1 year
What did you do after you were done: cuddled, showered then went to bed
How did you feel after you were done: i dont know how he felt

[Canadian Dream]

How old where you: 15
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Bedroom
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: 20 minutes
Did she orgasm: Yes
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Trojan
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: Boyfriend-girlfriend
Were you shave down there: No
Was she: No
How long you been with you partner before having sex: About a year
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Still ongoing
What did you do after you were done: Went to bed
How did you feel after you were done: Amazing

[Zachary G]

How old where you: 12
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: tree house in the woods
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: 15 min
Did she orgasm: yes HE did
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: lifestyles
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: friend then bf
Were you shave down there: trimmed
Was she: shaved
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 2-3 days
How did you relationship last after you had sex: couple of years
What did you do after you were done: got dressed
How did you feel after you were done: tired, kinda sore, and excited

[Ivorystick]

How old where you: 18
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: outside
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: about 2 min
Did she orgasm: no
Did you use condoms: no
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: acquaintance
Were you shave down there: trimmed
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: just friends
How did you relationship last after you had sex: didn't
What did you do after you were done: leave
How did you feel after you were done: weird

Anything else you want to add: good luck

[mattsmith48]

How old where you:15
Was it with a boy or girl:girl
Where did you have sex:bedroom
Did you cum:yes
How long did you last:20mins
Did she orgasm:when we did it again yes
Did you use condoms:yes
If yes what brand:trojan fire and ice
Any other protection:idk
What was your relationship with the other person:one night stand
Were you shave down there:yes
Was she:yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex:15mins
How did you relationship last after you had sex:1 hour
What did you do after you were done:have sex again
How did you feel after you were done:great

Anything else you want to add: have fun

[Laraa.01]

I'm answering as if I were the boy I lost it to

How old were you: 14
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: My bed
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: About 15 minutes
Did she orgasm: No
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Can't remember
Any other protection: Nope
What was your relationship with the other person: FWB
Were you shave down there: Nope
Was she: Neatly trimmed
How long you been with you partner before having sex: Known each other about 14 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Yes, still does to a point but not FWB any more
What did you do after you were done: We lay in bed and chatted
How did you feel after you were done: Content

[Meh Guy]

How old where you:13
Was it with a boy or girl:girl
Where did you have sex:my bed
Did you cum:yeah
How long did you last:about 10-15 minutes
Did she orgasm:after I finished her a bit later
Did you use condoms:no
If yes what brand:
Any other protection:birth control
What was your relationship with the other person: bf/gf
Were you shave down there:no, but I didn't have too much down there yet
Was she:trimmed
How long you been with you partner before having sex:a few months
How did you relationship last after you had sex:we broke up about 2 months later for different issues
What did you do after you were done: i finished her and then we got dressed and watched TV
How did you feel after you were done:satisfied

Take your time and make sure to communicate with your partner. Oh and have fun ;)

[TSUNAMI]

Thanks everyone for helpful advice

[cami]

How old where you: He was 14
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: His room
Did you cum: Yes, he did
How long did you last: around 15 minutes
Did she orgasm: No, I didn't
Did you use condoms: Yes, he did (not during bj)
If yes what brand: No idea
Any other protection: Nope
What was your relationship with the other person: friends
Were you shave down there: No, he wasn't
Was she: No, I wasn't
How long you been with you partner before having sex: We have been friends since 7 yo
How did you relationship last after you had sex: We were not in a relationship
What did you do after you were done: Do it again :lol3:
How did you feel after you were done: He was destroyed ^^

Anything else you want to add: Nope

[nicole97]

Like other girls above, answering from the perspective of my partner::

How old where you: 14
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: her room
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: 6-8 minutes
Did she orgasm: no
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: trojan
Any other protection: Pulled out just in case
What was your relationship with the other person: GF at the time
Were you shave down there: no, but trimmed
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 7 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: another year and a half
What did you do after you were done: Cleaned up and cuddled
How did you feel after you were done: I can't get inside his head, but he seemed pretty happy and relieved.

Anything else you want to add:

[butterflykisses69]

How old where you: 13
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: friend's house
Did you cum: he did
How long did you last: he lasted about 15 min
Did she orgasm: yes I did, more than once
Did you use condoms: no
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: the pill
What was your relationship with the other person: we had been hanging out and flirting a lot and slowly started dating
Were you shave down there: he was trimmed
Was she: I was shaved
How long you been with you partner before having sex: we weren't exactly officially "together" yet
How did you relationship last after you had sex: a long time, we broke up for a little bit last year but we are still together now
What did you do after you were done: cuddled, then had another go
How did you feel after you were done: blissful and tired

[Mastervancarsall2020]

How old where you: I was 18 nearly 19 she was 16 nearly 17
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex:at hers
Did you cum:yes
How long did you last: not that long
Did she orgasm:no but I've got her going now
Did you use condoms:no, never have
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: she was on the jab but not now
What was your relationship with the other person: gf
Were you shave down there:no
Was she:yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: a few days
How did you relationship last after you had sex: still together after 18 months
What did you do after you were done: cleaned up got dressed and went for a smoke
How did you feel after you were done: amazing

[angelina]

better if boys tell about their experience on this survey...girls could not give a correct picture out of inhibition....

[BEATNiK]

How old where you:15, she was 19
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Hotel room
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: Pretty long actually
Did she orgasm: Yes
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Some fancy japanese condoms lol
Any other protection: Nah
What was your relationship with the other person: A girl i loved
Were you shave down there: Nope
Was she: Nah, she was korean
How long you been with you partner before having sex: A few days
How did you relationship last after you had sex: I had to go home, it sorta faded away
What did you do after you were done: Just lay there
How did you feel after you were done: Like i discovered a great part of living

[Omgtheykilledkenny]

How old where you: 16
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: his bedroom
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: quite a long time
Did she orgasm: yes he did
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: Durex
Any other protection: nope
What was your relationship with the other person: think we just started dating if not just before
Were you shave down there: trimmed I think
Was she: also trimmed I believe
How long you been with you partner before having sex: like a week
How did you relationship last after you had sex: still going strong for about a year and a half
What did you do after you were done: think talked and kissed and stuff
How did you feel after you were done:pretty good

[Poontang King117]

Me and my gf are planning on having sex for the 1st time next weekend and I have a few questions. This survey is for boys girls you can anwser for the guy you lost you virginity too

How old where you: 15
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Her bedroom
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: 15 min
Did she orgasm: Yes
Did you use a condomYes
If yes what brand: Durex
Any other protection: The Pill
What was your relationship with the other person: Boyfriend
Were you shave down there: No
Was she: Yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 7 months
How did your relationship last after you had sex: Quite we'll
What did you do after you were done: Slept in each other's arms and the fucked again
How did you feel after you were done:
Amazing and Fulfilled
Anything else you want to add: No

[iamsilkspectre]

How old where you: 13
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: his house
Did you cum: no
How long did you last: 10 minutes aprox
Did he orgasm: yes
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: Trojan
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: he was my BF
Were you shave down there: no, I had very little hair :P
Was he: no
How long you been with you partner before having sex: a few months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: a few more months, three or four
What did you do after you were done: talked and had sex again
How did you feel after you were done: happy

[NorthWestGirl]

How old where you: 15
Was it with a boy or girl: 'Boy'
Where did you have sex: His House
Did you cum: No
How long did he last: About 15 minutes
Did he Cum: Yes
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Durex
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: Boyfriend
Were you shave down there: Nope
Was he: No
How long you been with you partner before having sex: Over a year
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Still going!
What did you do after you were done: Cuddled, talked and did it again.
How did you feel after you were done: happy

[Nicolette]

How old where you: 13
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: friend's party
Did you cum: he did
How long did you last: he lasted about 5 min
Did she orgasm: yes I did,
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand:
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: friend of friend
Were you shave down there: No
Was she: No
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 1 night
How did you relationship last after you had sex: 3 days
What did you do after you were done:
How did you feel after you were done: :)

[hekohnice]

How old where you: 15
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: her bed
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: maybe 5 minutes lol
Did she orgasm: yes
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: idk
Any other protection:
What was your relationship with the other person: gf
Were you shave down there: trimmed
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: couple months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: v good
What did you do after you were done: slept i think
How did you feel after you were done: best feeling ever

Anything else you want to add: DO IT

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Still a virgin a no plans to change it anytime soon

[Meamo]

How old where you:17

Was it with a boy or girl:girl

Where did you have sex:my car :p

Did you cum:yeah

How long did you last:like 45 mins

Did she orgasm:yes

Did you use condoms:yes

If yes what brand:Trojan

Any other protection:nope

What was your relationship with the other person: good friends

Were you shave down there:trimmed

Was she:trimmed

How long you been with you partner before having sex:friends for a few months

How did you relationship last after you had sex:it was well.

What did you do after you were done: drove her home

How did you feel after you were done:good

[harristhetank]

How old where you:15
Was it with a boy or girl:girl
Where did you have sex:her hotel room
Did you cum:yes
How long did you last:barely three minutes
Did she orgasm:yes when I fingered her before the actual sex
Did you use condoms:yes
If yes what brand:Durex
Any other protection:no
What was your relationship with the other person: friend
Were you shave down there: I was trimmed
Was she:yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex:a few days
How did you relationship last after you had sex:not long
What did you do after you were done: cuddled and made out then we had sex again
How did you feel after you were done:pretty good

Anything else you want to add:just be confident and caring to the girl.

[BlackParadePixie]

How old where you: 13
Was it with a boy or girl: boy
Where did you have sex: his bedroom
Did you cum: no
How long did you last: about a minute the very first time
Did he orgasm: yes
Did you use condoms: yes
If yes what brand: no idea
Any other protection: no
What was your relationship with the other person: he was my boyfriend at the time
Were you shave down there: no
Was he: no
How long you been with you partner before having sex: a couple weeks
How did you relationship last after you had sex: about a month
What did you do after you were done: madeout for a bit, then tried it again
How did you feel after you were done: not very impressed

[rchris15]

How old where you: I was 13 and he was 15
Was it with a boy or girl: Boy
Where did you have sex: Outside, in the woods
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: Like 15 minutes
Did she orgasm: Yes HE did
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Trojan
Any other protection: Nope
What was your relationship with the other person: FWB
Were you shave down there: Yeah
Was she: Yes HE was
How long you been with you partner before having sex: like a month
How did you relationship last after you had sex: 4 months
What did you do after you were done: cuddled
How did you feel after you were done: tired but ecstatic

Anything else you want to add:

[BabyGMarie]

How old where you: 18
Was it with a boy or girl: Boy
Where did you have sex: My room
Did you cum: I think
How long did you last: 20-30 mins
Did she orgasm: Yes I did
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Magnum
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: Friend
Were you shave down there: Yes
Was she:
How long you been with you partner before having sex: Been friends for years
How did you relationship last after you had sex: Still friends
What did you do after you were done: Layed down then took a shower
How did you feel after you were done: Felt like I couldn't move

Anything else you want to add:

[Alice16]

Im 16 and my boyfrien is 18 and he really wants to havr sex and i do to im just not ready yet and every time i want to tell him i choke up and the words dont come out so can someone help me on telling me what yo say to him? Please :confused:

[Harrier]

Im 16 and my boyfrien is 18 and he really wants to havr sex and i do to im just not ready yet and every time i want to tell him i choke up and the words dont come out so can someone help me on telling me what yo say to him? Please :confused:

Me and my gf (both 16) are both virgins and both really want to go all the way but we discuss everything as mature as possible. I've read online that if you're not mature enough to have a mature discussion, you're not mature enough to have sex.
Add: Just say, "I'm not ready for sex .... (if you want, you can say why)"

[TeenPortland]

Just use protection;)

[jsands]

How old where you: 17
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: living room at her house
Did you cum: yes
How long did you last: about 20 minutes
Did she orgasm: no
Did you use condoms: no
Any other protection: she was on the pill
What was your relationship with the other person: my girlfriend
Were you shave down there: nope, trimmed
Was she: yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 6 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: 1 year
What did you do after you were done: cuddle and then did it again after a while
How did you feel after you were done: just really content and lucky

Anything else you want to add: Stop fucking everyone so early and just enjoy it when it comes along

[Brieftime]

I can't answer this survey yet but it looks like sex only lasts about 15 minutes. I thought it would last longer.

[AlexinCali]

How old where you: 13
Was it with a boy or girl: Girl
Where did you have sex: Her house
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: About 15 minutes, not too long
Did she orgasm: Yes
Did you use condoms: Yes
If yes what brand: Trojan all the way, lol
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: We were in a relationship
Were you shave down there: Depends if the girl likes it, but I do now
Was she: Yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: 6 months
How did you relationship last after you had sex: About a month
What did you do after you were done: We went to take a shower and did it again
How did you feel after you were done: Tired

Anything else you want to add: It's a great thing man, barely lasted when I went a year without. Make sure it's the person you want to lose it to though, I probably would of liked to of waited a bit longer. But I think you should be good, just make sure to get a good brand of condom and try to get her on the pill for the future. I wish you luck lol. Also try to experiment with positions, don't just stick to one.

[KellyNC]

How old where you: 14
Was it with a boy or girl: girl
Where did you have sex: My room
Did you cum: Yes
How long did you last: 30 minutes
Did she orgasm: Yes
Did you use condoms: DOn't really need to with two girls so...
If yes what brand: n/a
Any other protection: No
What was your relationship with the other person: Friend, who
Were you shave down there: Yes
Was she: Yes
How long you been with you partner before having sex: We weren't in a relationship, but we'd been friends for 3 years. And experimenting for almost 2
How did you relationship last after you had sex: It's remained a casual thing
What did you do after you were done: Laid there for a while, talked, and did it again
How did you feel after you were done: Amazing

[Poontang King117]

I can't answer this survey yet but it looks like sex only lasts about 15 minutes. I thought it would last longer.

First times don't usually last very long, but after that guys generally will last longer.

[Ricky.h]

Me and my gf are planning on having sex for the 1st time next weekend and I have a few questions. This survey is for boys girls you can anwser for the guy you lost you virginity too

How old where you:
Was it with a boy or girl:
Where did you have sex:
Did you cum:
How long did you last:
Did she orgasm:
Did you use condoms:
If yes what brand:
Any other protection:
What was your relationship with the other person:
Were you shave down there:
Was she:
How long you been with you partner before having sex:
How did you relationship last after you had sex:
What did you do after you were done:
How did you feel after you were done:

Anything else you want to add:

I was 16
Girlfriend
We had sex in a hotel room
Yeah I bust my nut several times
Um. I lasted about 30-45 minutes but we had many rounds because we had the whole night, so I can't really pinpoint
She definitely orgasmed...she actually squirted
We didn't use condoms
She was / still is on birth control
I didn't shave but she did
We were dating for about a year
We are still dating
After we were done we relaxed and did it again
I felt like a man when we were done