Too many "friends"

[Chlochlo47]

My whole live I've always had guys chasing after me but this past year has been different. I switched schools and Ive made a ton of friends but thats it. I have guy friends but they only ever look at me as a friends. I asked one of my closer friends why she thought this was happening and she said that I was too friendly and nice and that it intimidated people. Since when has being nice been too much? But we just had our winter dance and I was really embarrassed because no guy asked me to go with him but all my friends had dates. Is there any advice you guys have to make guys more attracted to me?

[Thunderstorm]

My whole live I've always had guys chasing after me but this past year has been different. I switched schools and Ive made a ton of friends but thats it. I have guy friends but they only ever look at me as a friends. I asked one of my closer friends why she thought this was happening and she said that I was too friendly and nice and that it intimidated people. Since when has being nice been too much? But we just had our winter dance and I was really embarrassed because no guy asked me to go with him but all my friends had dates. Is there any advice you guys have to make guys more attracted to me?

Maybe you're just a really nice person and I don't know what guy wouldn't want that. Just be yourself. You will find someone who likes you for your kindness and gratitude. However, no guy is going to come running after you. Don't just wait for that. You need to go out there and do it yourself.

[Pilyk]

Thunderstorm is truly wright in my opinion, don't just wait some one to be interseted in you, act !
I know this situation is difficult, having loads of good friends but being single too (that's also why I do not have many further advices ^^')
Good luck, and be confident in yourself, nice people like you can do great things !

[JamesSuperBoy]

My whole live I've always had guys chasing after me but this past year has been different. I switched schools and Ive made a ton of friends but thats it. I have guy friends but they only ever look at me as a friends. I asked one of my closer friends why she thought this was happening and she said that I was too friendly and nice and that it intimidated people. Since when has being nice been too much? But we just had our winter dance and I was really embarrassed because no guy asked me to go with him but all my friends had dates. Is there any advice you guys have to make guys more attracted to me?

I wonder how others see your "to friendly and nice" maybe they see you as pushy or something that is thier problem. As for dates at a dance well you are new to the school - take your friend's advice she knows you and the rest at school.

[Akatosh]

When you're interested in a person, you've got to tell them about your interest sooner rather than later. People, especially teenagers, are shy. I'd bet money that at least one of your male friends is interested in you. Being forward with your intentions may seem terrifying and altogether horrible now, but I guarantee that it's worth it.

Building this kind of confidence now will make for smoother sailing in adulthood as well.

[CanadianJake]

Firstly you can have as many friends you want, there's no rule that says you can't have too many friends. However it depends on what being nice means? By that question I mean how nice are you being to them? is it enough to push a guy off to not like you in that way, they may not want to be pushed but aye their loss if they miss out. You'll meet the right one eventually, just give it some time. I'm not sure how old you are but just give it some time and enjoy being single while you can, there's no rush into putting yourself into a relationship! :)

[CreativeUsername]

Like many people said, put yourself out there, if there's someone you like, you have to act. And if you're too shy or don't want to tell them in person, almost every school has that one person who can't keep a secret, and if you tell them who you like, then they'll tell your crush.