Experimenting with crush

[shygirly71]

I don't know if this should be posted here, but I'm going to give it a shot. I have this guy friend that I've had a huge crush on for more than a year, and I think he likes me too. We always make eye contact from across the room. He's not shy, but I don't think he's going to ask me out. He's never had a girlfriend before, but everybody loves him 'cause he isn't a jerk and is just a nice guy overall. Just as a side note, I am pretty shy, and I haven't had a boyfriend, either.

I get to see him everyday, and today and almost everyday I'm with him, I see him get an erection, but he doesn't try to hide it. I think since everybody kind of sees him as the "cute guy", he's trying to show me his sexual prowess so I don't think the same way also. I'm pretty he knows I like him because of all the random eye contact we make.

I think I've finally figured him out. He likes me but he's too afraid to ask me out. I think he just kind of enjoys the secret flirting with me, and I think he's trying to get a little sexual with his flirts. I got very aroused today by his erection, and I want to return the sexual flirts.

Since I get to see him everyday for about 30 minutes everyday alone, I thought I'd wear a short skirt tomorrow and open my legs slightly to him so would get the message.

I don't think I have enough confidence to do this, though! I really want to, but I don't think I can without chickening out.

We're pretty good friends, and I think, if I should start experimenting with anybody, I should experiment with him. Not full on sex. Maybe just seeing each other naked and maybe just a handjob.

He's very respectful hasn't asked me to do anything with him or with any other girl. In fact, every girl loves him, but only as the "cute guy". I know I'm 15, but I really like him and I feel very comfortable with him. I promise I am not a promiscuous girl at all!

What do you guys think?

[suzzysmith2012]

Kinda sounds like you will have to make the first step, either that or you'll both grow old and die waiting for the other one to move, or you or him will eventually just say ++++it and move on. You both are shy so maybe that will help in starting something, maybe you'll both click together good and find you have a lot in common. I would say try it and see where it go's, you can always back out of it. Maybe sit by him at lunch or something, or ask him to go see a movie, or go to Starbucks together, or ask to walk home part way, something small. He is probably somewhat insecure and is afraid to ask you on his own in fears of creeping you out or scaring you. Just take little careful steps and see where they lead you.

[shygirly71]

So do you think the leg spreading is a bad idea? I was thinking that before I ask to do anything with me, I would just lead him on and keep flirting with him like this.

After all, is there anything bad that can happen with him looking down my skirt?

[Meh Guy]

Well, without going into too much detail... You'll most likely have to make the first move. The skirt thing could work, however, if you're not ready for sex, don't let him get the wrong idea.especially if he hasn't had a girlfriend before, he may mistake that as something a little more sexual than just, "I like you"

[suzzysmith2012]

I agree with Meh Guy, flashing him with you skirt or shirt or wearing really suggestive clothes might be a bit too big of a first step. I don't think you'd want to give him a first impression that you are just a sl%tt or some wh#re looking just for another notch in your "boy stick", I'm not at all saying you are, he just might just get that and put the wrong value on you. Come across to him as the person you really are. Try talking to him, find something you can compliment him on, when he looks at you smile with a smile or look that says "I like you"

[PinkFloyd]

It sounds like you definitely have to make the right move. As a guy, I can tell you that he will not be weirded out by it. Even if he never once flirted back at you, he would still love the skirt thing. Jumping forward a little, if everything does work out and you start going out, you should talk to him about how things will go sexually. Don't start out by giving him a hj or anything. My advice is to start out with a kiss and go from there.

[shygirly71]

I did work up enough confidence to spread my legs to him today, and it worked better than I had hoped! I'm not going out with him, but I do know that he likes me and is sexually attracted to me aswell!



-post edited. way too much detail. -Emerald Dream

[Emerald Dream]

I apologize, but this is way too much sexual storytelling, and encouraging of perpetuating it - which is not allowed. Some posts have been deleted or edited because, quite honestly - this is not a porn or sex stories site. :locked: