Kochanek
February 10th, 2015, 05:51 AM
Girls I had sex with told me complete different things about the role sex and masturbation play in their lives.
1.
One told me that after she discovered masturbation at the age of 12 it has always been enough to satisfy her desires, although she has a high sex drive and usually does it daily. As she said she really likes sex, but often even prefers masturbating. And even if she feels like having sex and masturbates only in substitute it always gives her satisfaction.
2.
Another girl told me, that from the moment she masturbated for the first time and had her first orgasm, she always felt a desire or even craving for sex while doing it and that she hardly could wait to make that experience. She said, that masturbation for her is only a means to ease her desires but real satisfaction she only gets by sex.
3.
A girl I met last week now even told me, that she never managed to get an orgasm or any relief of her desires by masturbation, but only petting or real intercourse can make her orgasm and feel satisfied. Having desires and not being able to ease them by herself made her lose her virginity early (too early as she said) and makes her now have one night stands quite often.
For me as a boy I cannot quite understand no. 3 or retrace in mind. For me sex and masturbation play rather the role like in no. 2's life. And I could imagine, there are a lot of boys like no. 1. But I never heard of boys not being able to cum by masturbating, and she was truely the first and only girl I ever heard such a thing of.
The question goes to both boys and girls: Which number fits most likely to you?
1.
One told me that after she discovered masturbation at the age of 12 it has always been enough to satisfy her desires, although she has a high sex drive and usually does it daily. As she said she really likes sex, but often even prefers masturbating. And even if she feels like having sex and masturbates only in substitute it always gives her satisfaction.
2.
Another girl told me, that from the moment she masturbated for the first time and had her first orgasm, she always felt a desire or even craving for sex while doing it and that she hardly could wait to make that experience. She said, that masturbation for her is only a means to ease her desires but real satisfaction she only gets by sex.
3.
A girl I met last week now even told me, that she never managed to get an orgasm or any relief of her desires by masturbation, but only petting or real intercourse can make her orgasm and feel satisfied. Having desires and not being able to ease them by herself made her lose her virginity early (too early as she said) and makes her now have one night stands quite often.
For me as a boy I cannot quite understand no. 3 or retrace in mind. For me sex and masturbation play rather the role like in no. 2's life. And I could imagine, there are a lot of boys like no. 1. But I never heard of boys not being able to cum by masturbating, and she was truely the first and only girl I ever heard such a thing of.
The question goes to both boys and girls: Which number fits most likely to you?