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orchadork
February 9th, 2015, 07:26 PM
Ok so in my signature it says, Bisexual, but am I really?

I really only watch gay porn (when I do) and if I watch straight porn then I pay attention to the guy. I started a gay blog. And I catch myself looking at other guys at school.

If you need more info let me know :P

pjones
February 9th, 2015, 07:34 PM
i like looking at boys and girls, get aroused by boys and girls but have only done stuff with boys so far. kinda of shy around girls. i go back and forth thinking i'm either bi or really curious. one of these days i'll figure it out, not too worried about it.

shybi15
February 9th, 2015, 07:52 PM
I call myself bisexual.
I mostly watch gay porn,
I find myself more physically attacted to boys and enjoy sexual relations more with boys
But i deffinetely see myself with a wife and kids when i am older.

People have their own interpretation of what bisexuality is. If you ask me, its a huge gap inbetween straight and gay.
Moving on to how you described yourself - yes i do think that you are bi.
I think some people spend too much time worrying about what category they are in.
The simple way to put is 1) ''im only attracted to girls'' 2) ''im attracted to both boys and girls'' 3) ''im only attracted to boys'''

Calliope
February 9th, 2015, 10:03 PM
Ask yourself this: are you still attracted to girls? If yes, then you're bisexual. If not, then you're probably gay.

SethfromMI
February 9th, 2015, 10:04 PM
Ok so in my signature it says, Bisexual, but am I really?

I really only watch gay porn (when I do) and if I watch straight porn then I pay attention to the guy. I started a gay blog. And I catch myself looking at other guys at school.

If you need more info let me know :P

well are you still sexually attracted to girls as well?

Uranus
February 9th, 2015, 10:11 PM
The only question; are you still attracted to females?

DoodleSnap
February 10th, 2015, 05:36 PM
Bisexual refers to a huge spectrum in between "straight" and "gay", so of course it is fine to still use the label while being more attracted to one gender. I am in much the same position as yourself, but I am still able to be attracted to my GF/bestfriend, and use the bisexual label all at the same time. What is most important is that you feel comfortable with yourself, and if you have that down-pat, then associating with a certain label doesn't matter too much. But, for what it is worth, I think that the bi label works perfectly for you.

orchadork
February 10th, 2015, 06:56 PM
To answer the question of Seth and Bright Nights, Very little.

But thanks guys for the feedback, it helps :P

Akatosh
February 10th, 2015, 09:42 PM
I think sexuality really is a spectrum. I would only ever date men, I'm 100% sure of that, but I occasionally fantasize sexually about women in very specific circumstances. I still consider myself straight. If you're attracted to both men and women, you're probably bi, but nobody can tell you who you are but you.

Axel_
February 14th, 2015, 12:28 PM
If you're attracted physically and sexually toward girls then you're not gay.

Jackrabbit7
February 17th, 2015, 10:11 PM
Im in the same place as you. I was really confused about my sexuality so decide to stop watching porn and masturbating to see how I would feel. It's sill an interesting experience. Right now I can only see my self 20 years from now with a girl, I'm attracted to girls, but i really want to experiment with a guy.

I personally think it just depends on where you see yourself 5, 10, 15, 20 years form now. Just because you want to be with guys now doesn't mean you're going to end up with one and vice versa

Plus your only 15 you have so much time to find out who you are.