A little help pleeeease :(

[Nico11]

I saw this girl when i first moved to my new place. I was in 2nd grade then, but love doesnt have age, does it? Coincidentally, we went to the same school, in the same bus and used to hang out (kids back then). I still have a lot of memories of us. Then when i moved to my new home across the street, and the buses changed after the 6th grade. And we lived life diffrently. That was until the 9th grade when i got back in touch, fell in love again, propsed and then retracted it (found out she was already in a relo) and excused about liking someone else. This was december 2013. Then in september last the day exams got over, started the nie day dance festival 'navratri' . I met her again after 4 years alone in the garden. Although we saw each other in school, this was the first time i had been this close again. We met the next day and almost got caught. Then she started ignoring me fr a while on whatsapp, but got back to normal after talking in school. When i proposed her again on the 9th day, she ignored me agin fr a while and then normalized (without answering). I had decided she was the love of my life. Sadly, she didnt believe me. A friend kinda set fire b/w us and we fought. I went into a phase of depression.i couldn't imagine my life without her. But what was broken couldn't be put together. I said that we should stop talking. She agreed. After a few days i found out that she liked another guy.

We havent talkd fr 3 months now and i still love her. I still look at her pics. Those memories still make my gut ache

This is kinda a moderately deep overview. Plz msg me. Any help is deeply appreciated.

[CreativeUsername]

I saw this girl when i first moved to my new place. I was in 2nd grade then, but love doesnt have age, does it? Coincidentally, we went to the same school, in the same bus and used to hang out (kids back then). I still have a lot of memories of us. Then when i moved to my new home across the street, and the buses changed after the 6th grade. And we lived life diffrently. That was until the 9th grade when i got back in touch, fell in love again, propsed and then retracted it (found out she was already in a relo) and excused about liking someone else. This was december 2013. Then in september last the day exams got over, started the nie day dance festival 'navratri' . I met her again after 4 years alone in the garden. Although we saw each other in school, this was the first time i had been this close again. We met the next day and almost got caught. Then she started ignoring me fr a while on whatsapp, but got back to normal after talking in school. When i proposed her again on the 9th day, she ignored me agin fr a while and then normalized (without answering). I had decided she was the love of my life. Sadly, she didnt believe me. A friend kinda set fire b/w us and we fought. I went into a phase of depression.i couldn't imagine my life without her. But what was broken couldn't be put together. I said that we should stop talking. She agreed. After a few days i found out that she liked another guy.

We havent talkd fr 3 months now and i still love her. I still look at her pics. Those memories still make my gut ache

This is kinda a moderately deep overview. Plz msg me. Any help is deeply appreciated.

I'm actually in a very similar situation. I told a girl how I felt, she said I know and walked away, and is now going out with someone else. In a situation like this, you can either wait it out, or move on, and find some one else, or both. but you don't want to keep looking at pictures, because it only makes you more depressed, and I would know. I have those exact same feelings as you. I want to try and win her over, but it probably won't work, but I'm still going to try. If you're friends with some of her friends, talk to them (just not too much or they'll get annoyed) about her, and ask for their advice, because they know her better than anyone on here does. Another thing you could do is lie to her, and tell her that you don't have feelings for her, and that you just want to be friends like when you were younger. Maintaining that friendship is sometimes more important than a relationship. Or you could use that friendship as a way of getting close to her. All of these are these that I'm going to try as well, and I hope everything works out for you.

[Nico11]

Thanks a ton kingbaz3. I'll make one last try, and if doesn't work out, we can still be friends right?. There is just one problem and that is the amount of awkwardness of talking after 3 months even after knowing each other so well. Hope everything works out for you too :)

[Nico11]

Can I get some more advice guys?
Her memories are haunting me again.

[John Scoop]

Well, it's a tough situation, believe me, I know. I would say, well, just try and be happy. Your happiness shouldn't depend on someone else liking you back. It's gonna be tough, and yeah you can try and pursue her and continue watching her pics and all of that, but it's gonna just hurt you more.

I would say, well, try and just live your life. Keep yourself busy, pick up a new hobbie, catch up on a series, make some new friends, etc. I know you are tempted to keep going after her, and I think being friends could be great, but dont try and use a friendship like that, it has to be genuine, just be glad if you become friends again. In case things go wrong, you need to know how to be happy without her. And if you manage to do that and things go your way, well, imagine how happy you'll be

[DoodleSnap]

Well, it's a tough situation, believe me, I know. I would say, well, just try and be happy. Your happiness shouldn't depend on someone else liking you back. It's gonna be tough, and yeah you can try and pursue her and continue watching her pics and all of that, but it's gonna just hurt you more.

I would say, well, try and just live your life. Keep yourself busy, pick up a new hobbie, catch up on a series, make some new friends, etc. I know you are tempted to keep going after her, and I think being friends could be great, but dont try and use a friendship like that, it has to be genuine, just be glad if you become friends again. In case things go wrong, you need to know how to be happy without her. And if you manage to do that and things go your way, well, imagine how happy you'll be
This is important. Learning to love yourself is the first step of moving on. Understand that your life, and your worth, is not based off of someone else's opinion, but on what you do for yourself. As stated above, pick up hobbies, build up the parts of life that are yours, and become whole, patient, and ready for a new relationship. I understand this time can be very hard, but know that you will get through it. Good luck.