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Lewzer
February 7th, 2015, 10:06 PM
Im really scared that i will never find a mate, that no one will find me even remotely likable. So if i cant like myself, would anyone else?

Leprous
February 8th, 2015, 01:36 AM
Im really scared that i will never find a mate, that no one will find me even remotely likable. So if i cant like myself, would anyone else?

Yeah, I've been there. People do want you, don't think you'll never finf someone. Just don't give up and everything will be alright :).

Karkat
February 8th, 2015, 07:46 PM
Actually, that's the best question to ask when looking for a potential partner.

In order to make ANY romantic relationship work- ESPECIALLY long-lasting, you have to learn to love yourself. Anyone who says otherwise is either kidding themselves or full of bullshit.

You have to fall in love with yourself first to love another person. And as scary as that might be, it's worth it, because you're the only person you know you'll have for sure for the rest of your life.

Uranus
February 8th, 2015, 08:37 PM
Don't worry. I know that feeling. It's just something people go through in life. Eventually the time will come

Person123the
February 8th, 2015, 09:45 PM
Im really scared that i will never find a mate, that no one will find me even remotely likable. So if i cant like myself, would anyone else?

Not only have I been, there, but I am still here!!!!

SethfromMI
February 8th, 2015, 09:58 PM
well you make a good point. why do you not like yourself? try to being to search yourself and try to learn to love yourself for who you are

Meh Guy
February 8th, 2015, 10:20 PM
Im really scared that i will never find a mate, that no one will find me even remotely likable. So if i cant like myself, would anyone else?

Not many people. It is good to understand this, and the fact you can recognize this is one step in the right direction. You need to love yourself. Everyone has flaws, and that's what makes us unique. Love your flaws and learn to accept them. No one is looking for a perfect person, just someone who is fun and outgoing. And someone who respects themselves as much as they respect others

DoodleSnap
February 10th, 2015, 06:01 PM
Not many people. It is good to understand this, and the fact you can recognize this is one step in the right direction. You need to love yourself. Everyone has flaws, and that's what makes us unique. Love your flaws and learn to accept them. No one is looking for a perfect person, just someone who is fun and outgoing. And someone who respects themselves as much as they respect others
This is very good advice, and probably how I'd put it. Learn to love yourself, and you will have a sound foundation for any relationship.