I'm too scared to kiss him

[lejazzy]

I'm 14. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month. During the past week he's said multiple times that he wants to kiss me. Today a mutual friend of ours told me that he said he's going to kiss me on Monday after school. I don't think I'm ready to kiss him yet, but I don't want to tell him that because I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him think that I don't like him. This will be my first kiss and I'm terrified that I'm going to mess it up or something or that my mom will find out and then I'll get in trouble because she doesn't know I have a boyfriend. I really don't know what to do.. please help.

[TheGentleHerbivore]

First kisses are nothing. It's really just as simple as putting your lips to his and going "muah". In a split second it'll be over.

There aren't many ways a person can mess it up.

Calm down. It's really not something to get this worked up over.

[Matt723]

That is how I felt with my first serious girlfriend. Once you guys get more comfortable with the whole dating thing it'll be easier. All you have to do is approach him and put your lips on his for like one second and it'll be done.

[SethfromMI]

oh don't worry, there really is nothing to it

[Meh Guy]

First kisses are nothing. It's really just as simple as putting your lips to his and going "muah". In a split second it'll be over.

There aren't many ways a person can mess it up.

Calm down. It's really not something to get this worked up over.

oh don't worry, there really is nothing to it

Yeah, in reality, your first kiss will be nothing more than a fond memory in most cases. So don't lose sleep over it.

[DoodleSnap]

Basically what everyone else said: not much can really go wrong. Kissing someone is pretty easy, and there is no need to get too worked up about it.

[Isabella_]

You'll be fine, just relax.
Let him come to you, part your lips when his touch yours and hold him

[Failed Algebra]

yeah like the others have said, don't worry about it. he's prob just as awkward as you are. but look, don't do it until you're ready and don't let yourself get forced into anything you dont like.

[Suicune]

If you feel that you are not ready then you are not obligated to kiss him. He should respect your decision to wait. His feelings might be hurt a bit, but that's something he'd have to deal with on his own. Try to take your time with things.

The day that you mentioned that he would kiss you has passed, but this still applies to everyone in the same situation.