I need a change. But I Cant. Depressed.

[Hitler007]

Hello All,

Im a student from United Arab Emirates. Its sad that I always get c and d grades in all my subjects I never have seen an A1. I procastinate all day and my anxiety is pretty high. My I hardly talk to my friends I feel much irritated when I talk to them. Its not the way they talk its because its because my mind feels burned to catch up what they're talking. I also have some family problem.

Now to the point.
I really feel like a looser, socially, academically and personally. I cant change, whatever I learned goes off! one day ill try hard to stop doing it then next day you'll see me doing it. My heart really feels weak now. I hardly go out.. I spend most of the time sitting on facebook no matter how hard I stop to use it knowing I have a test ill just go back using it being reason for my own failuire.

I have tests going on,
Yesterday I had a maths exam. Everyone have passed they told it was easy but it wasnt easy for me. I worked so hard! :(

Its hard for me to focus on just onething!

I really feel very depressed I need some tips on how you people control yourselves! :( :'(

[randyboy]

If you want me to be blunt and honest IMHO your location and country don't help!

Harsh I know but, true! Remember if I was there being who and how I am I would be executed so naturally I zero respect or any feelings for UAE. You need focus on you, your needs, your feelings,

As a person god man you have my total sympathy. Tests are just a glorified memory test, not all of us have a photogenic memory.

I'd say friends matter real true friends who think and feel the same as you, and not esp in ur place an Agenda of any kind. , Friends, Music, A movie sport go for a Run, just be free for those times

Good Luck and I wish you well,

[JamesSuperBoy]

Hello All,

Im a student from United Arab Emirates. Its sad that I always get c and d grades in all my subjects I never have seen an A1. I procastinate all day and my anxiety is pretty high. My I hardly talk to my friends I feel much irritated when I talk to them. Its not the way they talk its because its because my mind feels burned to catch up what they're talking. I also have some family problem.

Now to the point.
I really feel like a looser, socially, academically and personally. I cant change, whatever I learned goes off! one day ill try hard to stop doing it then next day you'll see me doing it. My heart really feels weak now. I hardly go out.. I spend most of the time sitting on facebook no matter how hard I stop to use it knowing I have a test ill just go back using it being reason for my own failuire.

I have tests going on,
Yesterday I had a maths exam. Everyone have passed they told it was easy but it wasnt easy for me. I worked so hard! :(

Its hard for me to focus on just onething!

I really feel very depressed I need some tips on how you people control yourselves! :( :'(

I think you have to ask not how others control themselves that can come later but for now this is a difficult question to answer as I do not know know anything about the UAE, the schools or say medical help.
If your school has a counselor or student advisor ask - what about your family.

One thing we do know it can be hard to ask for help when you most need it. But do try.

[Hitler007]

Thank you for your replies. :)

[randyboy]

I think you have to ask not how others control themselves that can come later but for now this is a difficult question to answer as I do not know know anything about the UAE, the schools or say medical help.
If your school has a counselor or student advisor ask - what about your family.

One thing we do know it can be hard to ask for help when you most need it. But do try.

OMG I'd be so careful my friend any hint of anything and you could be loaded up on the back of that Toyota Hi-Lux! I'd keep all your things and stuff to here where it's safe and you will get honest support. I'd wipe ur history after every session. I sware down trust no-one where you are. Go out for a run and clear you head and mind then come back
refreshed.

I am seriously concerned because you only have us u can be honest with and talk to I have to head on the neg-bad side for your sake I hope I've not offended but being gay and knowing UAE's attitude and like minded countries I have read up and done my homework and it really upsets me that I can do nothing as 1 to stop this stuff.

Ian x

[JamesSuperBoy]

Thank you for your replies. :)


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