Paladino
February 5th, 2015, 09:34 AM
If any of you saw my previous threads about my break up around 2 n a half months ago here is an update .. for anyone who hasn't its a long read and I would be thankful for anyone who takes the time to read this.
My EX decided to break up with me in November of last year, the first week I had to pester her to try and get answers as she was being very very fickle in the weeks leading up to the break up.
After I got a final answer I accepted defeat and tried to let go, a couple of weeks went by I thought she wasn't even worth it and everything was going fine, she had got into a rebound relationship rather quickly and notably so did I to try and get rid of these feelings of anger betrayal etc etc, then on Christmas Eve she messages my new GF's friend on FB and asks to speak to me as I had her blocked her, I told them to tell her I didn't want to speak to her. She then says "If you knew him as much as you think you do you'd know he would want to know about this", Alarm bells ringing .. She then proceeds to say "If he doesn't want to know then he will have nothing to do with it" alarm bells ringing EVEN MORE!! So I had to unblock her to find out she thought she was pregnant, now I believe her on this because there has been a few times in our nearly 2 year relationship where she thought she was pregnant before and we begin to talk again she comes to my uncles house with me where we are having a kind of after christmas party on boxing day.
She asks me if I was still with the new GF & I said no because I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I told her No because I wanted her back bearing in mind I was still with the rebound and she was still with hers, she finds out I was lying & tells me she doesn't want to speak to me any more. So I then just keep things going with my rebound and she does the same and I get some(lol). Then after New Year my new GF decides it isn't going to work & me and my ex start speaking again but I deliberately messed with her head because she fucked with mine and then I blocked her. I unblocked her again 2 fridays ago and we spoke about everything and she came to my friends party when I asked her and we spoke there too and the whole of last week we were spending time together and she went to the rebounds and told her rebound she was getting back with me. We were with each other basically the whole of last week and on Saturday Morning we had a massive arguement and now she won't speak to me again blocked me on EVERYTHING, Facebook, my number & BBM. So I don't have a clue what to do now?
She was acting as if everything was real, we sat on Monday night crying both of us when we were talking about old times and the possibilities of getting back together, either her tears were real or she is the most heartless person alive. But it felt so real the whole week when we were together and she made it feel that way so I am convinced it was real & if it wasn't for this stupid arguement we would still be together.
I am convinced she has went running back to her rebound to fill the void but who knows I hope I am wrong but I think she has. I don't even know how I could forgive her for doing that AGAIN because it was very difficult to try and let it go last time(partly what the arguement was about).
I want her back because I feel like we had an amazing time during last week and we could get it back to the way it was & I know she still loves me but she acts like she hates me because of how pissed off she is with me but I just don't know if she will come back or not? Any ideas on what to do now? I am not going to lie I am attached to this girl because we were friends for 4 years before hand & I love her so so much so I am not going to go away without a fight or unless she tells me she doesn't love me anymore which I know she does, but she is also confused because she probably has some sort of feelings for this new because "he was there for her when I couldn't be" but I know that her rebound can't compare to me, a guy who she has been in love with the last 2 years and had feelings for even longer you know?
My EX decided to break up with me in November of last year, the first week I had to pester her to try and get answers as she was being very very fickle in the weeks leading up to the break up.
After I got a final answer I accepted defeat and tried to let go, a couple of weeks went by I thought she wasn't even worth it and everything was going fine, she had got into a rebound relationship rather quickly and notably so did I to try and get rid of these feelings of anger betrayal etc etc, then on Christmas Eve she messages my new GF's friend on FB and asks to speak to me as I had her blocked her, I told them to tell her I didn't want to speak to her. She then says "If you knew him as much as you think you do you'd know he would want to know about this", Alarm bells ringing .. She then proceeds to say "If he doesn't want to know then he will have nothing to do with it" alarm bells ringing EVEN MORE!! So I had to unblock her to find out she thought she was pregnant, now I believe her on this because there has been a few times in our nearly 2 year relationship where she thought she was pregnant before and we begin to talk again she comes to my uncles house with me where we are having a kind of after christmas party on boxing day.
She asks me if I was still with the new GF & I said no because I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I told her No because I wanted her back bearing in mind I was still with the rebound and she was still with hers, she finds out I was lying & tells me she doesn't want to speak to me any more. So I then just keep things going with my rebound and she does the same and I get some(lol). Then after New Year my new GF decides it isn't going to work & me and my ex start speaking again but I deliberately messed with her head because she fucked with mine and then I blocked her. I unblocked her again 2 fridays ago and we spoke about everything and she came to my friends party when I asked her and we spoke there too and the whole of last week we were spending time together and she went to the rebounds and told her rebound she was getting back with me. We were with each other basically the whole of last week and on Saturday Morning we had a massive arguement and now she won't speak to me again blocked me on EVERYTHING, Facebook, my number & BBM. So I don't have a clue what to do now?
She was acting as if everything was real, we sat on Monday night crying both of us when we were talking about old times and the possibilities of getting back together, either her tears were real or she is the most heartless person alive. But it felt so real the whole week when we were together and she made it feel that way so I am convinced it was real & if it wasn't for this stupid arguement we would still be together.
I am convinced she has went running back to her rebound to fill the void but who knows I hope I am wrong but I think she has. I don't even know how I could forgive her for doing that AGAIN because it was very difficult to try and let it go last time(partly what the arguement was about).
I want her back because I feel like we had an amazing time during last week and we could get it back to the way it was & I know she still loves me but she acts like she hates me because of how pissed off she is with me but I just don't know if she will come back or not? Any ideas on what to do now? I am not going to lie I am attached to this girl because we were friends for 4 years before hand & I love her so so much so I am not going to go away without a fight or unless she tells me she doesn't love me anymore which I know she does, but she is also confused because she probably has some sort of feelings for this new because "he was there for her when I couldn't be" but I know that her rebound can't compare to me, a guy who she has been in love with the last 2 years and had feelings for even longer you know?