View Full Version : Straight guys messing around with gay guys?
cookiemonstermatt
February 4th, 2015, 11:19 PM
Am I like the only gay guy that's never known a straight guy who was willing to "experiment"? It's like every gay guy has this straight guy they can boast about. What's the deal yo?
James Dean
February 5th, 2015, 06:55 PM
It could be that those guys weren't straight. Between you and me, guys who say they are straight and do those types of things, were probably never straight to begin with. Usually guys who are not comfortable with their sexuality and whatever will probably try to straight act and probably say they aren't gay, but use that to cover up how they really feel and mess with other guys.
Don't worry about it, if a guy is straight he isn't going to do that type of stuff. If he says he's straight and he does, he is either bisexual or gay and is attracted to it.
SethfromMI
February 5th, 2015, 07:01 PM
It could be that those guys weren't straight. Between you and me, guys who say they are straight and do those types of things, were probably never straight to begin with. Usually guys who are not comfortable with their sexuality and whatever will probably try to straight act and probably say they aren't gay, but use that to cover up how they really feel and mess with other guys.
Don't worry about it, if a guy is straight he isn't going to do that type of stuff. If he says he's straight and he does, he is either bisexual or gay and is attracted to it.
this. I have never known a guy who was truly straight who wanted me to have sex or do stuff with them. not to say it doesnt happen. but if the guy wants to have sex with a guy, they are at least bi curious, and curious could be the key word depending on the guy
Meh Guy
February 5th, 2015, 07:57 PM
Eh, some guys are more comfortable with their sexuality and truly just want to see what it's like. On the other hand, some are to afraid they'll get ridiculed if someone finds out. It's not really the easiest thing to have happen, it can be extremely awkward or worrying. And obviously you could be hanging out with completely straight guys.
kanine
February 6th, 2015, 02:35 AM
I've had three. One has claimed he us "kinda sorta bi" for me in particular so he doesn't count.
So now that we're down to two another once told me he was curious and that's how we started but I'm pretty sure he's straight and just really likes getting off because trust me he'd choose a girl anyday of there was an option.
With the final one I don't really know? He might be bi or maybe just a gay who tried really hard to look straight but we go a lot slower than I did with the others so I'll take that as a sign that he's really not all that into it which us why it has stopped.
In any case it really depends on the people you hang out with and having the courage to ask them of they wanna.
austeen2
February 6th, 2015, 05:07 AM
I know exactly how you feel. I've been trying for a few years now. But no luck ;(
Straya
February 6th, 2015, 06:29 AM
Am I like the only gay guy that's never known a straight guy who was willing to "experiment"? It's like every gay guy has this straight guy they can boast about. What's the deal yo?
I know exactly how you feel. I've been trying for a few years now. But no luck ;(
do your straight friends now your gay and willing
Zachary G
February 6th, 2015, 09:31 AM
I've had three. One has claimed he us "kinda sorta bi" for me in particular so he doesn't count.
So now that we're down to two another once told me he was curious and that's how we started but I'm pretty sure he's straight and just really likes getting off because trust me he'd choose a girl anyday of there was an option.
With the final one I don't really know? He might be bi or maybe just a gay who tried really hard to look straight but we go a lot slower than I did with the others so I'll take that as a sign that he's really not all that into it which us why it has stopped.
In any case it really depends on the people you hang out with and having the courage to ask them of they wanna.
I too have had 3 and of those only one of them would choose a girl over me any day, but he has admitted to his curious side; of the other 2 one is definitely bi and the other is a closet gay.
cookiemonstermatt
February 6th, 2015, 11:15 AM
I know exactly how you feel. I've been trying for a few years now. But no luck ;(
tbh I never tried to. The closest I got was playing truth or dare with some friends and that didn't go very far. Plus it was only once. It was like 7th or 8th grade so we didn't know what we were doing other than this is "gay" and we didn't want to get caught. But I don't count that.
CuteGuy889
February 6th, 2015, 08:23 PM
I've got sm frnds lyk that ...They always comment abt my body, call me cute, feel my butt of tummy, etc...When we are with them they always suggest something to get my clothes off...lyk if it's warm they remove their shirts and want us str8ish guys to follow...or if a pool, river is there a dip in it in undies is a must..few tymes on deliberately spilled a drink on my pants just so that he can get me take it off and let it dry.!!!
Abhorrence
February 7th, 2015, 12:57 PM
To be honest, straight people who mess around with gay/bi people are the worst. They can really mess with people's heads when they suddenly decide "I'm out, I'm straight."
Troy35216
February 7th, 2015, 02:06 PM
not only have i never had a straight friend mess around with me. i can't even find any gay people to mess around with me. where they at??? am i the only gay person in alabama?
cookiemonstermatt
February 8th, 2015, 07:25 PM
not only have i never had a straight friend mess around with me. i can't even find any gay people to mess around with me. where they at??? am i the only gay person in alabama?
haha nahhh I'm sure you aren't. Some of us are really shy or nervous about being out.
okaitvdto
March 3rd, 2015, 03:54 PM
I have one guy like that, he gives me mixed signals and it really messes with my head. He also has a girlfriend..
OSUBuckEyes
March 3rd, 2015, 07:24 PM
Too much labels. Sometimes gay dudes are easier and you just need to nut. Beats beating off right? LMAO
Skaterdude1998
March 3rd, 2015, 07:51 PM
I agree Osu im bi and i have friends that mess with bi and gay dudes just to get head because their gfs either won't or suck at it.
OSUBuckEyes
March 3rd, 2015, 08:02 PM
I agree Osu im bi and i have friends that mess with bi and gay dudes just to get head because their gfs either won't or suck at it.
Honestly some great deep throat from a teammate when I was drunk was what first persuaded me. It was also my first deep throat LOL
Seth Green
March 8th, 2015, 01:16 PM
No straight guy has ever experimented with me.
OSUBuckEyes
March 8th, 2015, 03:56 PM
No straight guy has ever experimented with me.
Catch one who's friendly, open minded and going through a dry spell? LOL
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