My Sister Who I Never Met, And Want To Find Her

[Uranus]

Ok, so I made a thread similar to this a long time ago and I thought about it some more, and I am simply wanting some advice.

Here's the story:

So I was adopted. Yea really :P
The reason being is because my biological mother got pregnant by my biological father. Unfortunately she was not able to afford to take care of me. The reason why is because the man who got her pregnant...left her. Leaving her with almost nothing. So I had to be put up for adoption in order to keep me safe and alive. Anyways I was adopted. Now, a year later she got pregnant again. Over the 13-14 months my biological mother worked so hard and she was able to keep her new baby. My little sister, Lydia. But unfortunately my parents (Adoptive) lost contact with her. Resulting in, we have no way to contact my biological mother. Almost like she's off the grid. It's been like that for over a decade.

I want to find my biological mother and sister. But on my birth certificate, my adoptive parents are on the parents name line. So I have no way to find my mom and sister.

Is there anything I can do to find them? Please help. I really want to see them.

Maybe a blood test could tell me who she is?

[Body odah Man]

Have you tried Facebook? Tried posting stuff online? I don't think a bloodtest could work in this type of situation. Good luck.

[Uranus]

Have you tried Facebook? Tried posting stuff online? I don't think a bloodtest could work in this type of situation. Good luck.

Like I said. I have no idea how to find her. Social media won't work. Besides she probably wouldn't even know it's me because it'd be so random. And by blood test I mean, like DNA. And maybe my DNA will provide me with my biological mother name, ECT? And then I can find her?

[Elliott_hn]

you could try the DNA/blood test thing.
Good Luck!

[Left Now]

Maybe a DNA test would be able to help you,since I think there is always a Genes Bank in every country which contains DNAs of many of its citizens,but it might take time,maybe even lots of time!Anyway,as we Iranians say : "Might be Late or Soon,but won't be Loss and Loss"

[JamesSuperBoy]

I can only think one start would be say the adoption agency or who ever organised your adoption. Any start is a good one and even if they cannot help maybe they can advise.

[CanadianJake]

I think some have suggest right on going to get a DNA test done for starters, it may take some time to find some possible matches but it would be a start. Also did your biological mother ever tell someone about her last name? I'm sure if you knew a last name maybe would help, even if you don't know her first name. I don't know where you could start in that but I think the DNA testing would be a start.

[Body odah Man]

Like I said. I have no idea how to find her. Social media won't work. Besides she probably wouldn't even know it's me because it'd be so random. And by blood test I mean, like DNA. And maybe my DNA will provide me with my biological mother name, ECT? And then I can find her?

Dunno. It might

[SethfromMI]

in all seriousness, could your adoptive parents possibly pay for a private investigator? um other then that it is really hard to say. the adoption agency would still possibly have records of some sorts, at least something to maybe go off on. I wish you the best of luck my friend