Is it bad if I cum a little when I kiss my girlfriend?

[mariozplaze]

It happens to me sometimes and I get worried because now I think I will cum prematurely when I actually have sex my first time. She doesn't know about it though, (but the boner is obvious)

P.S. When I say kiss, I mean like making out

[Meh Guy]

It depends on what you mean, cum or precum? And do you mean an actual orgasm?

If its an actual orgasm then yeah you may have some premature problems. You can "train" yourself to hold it back but other than that I'm not sure how to fix this. If its not an orgasm then yeah I'd say you're pretty normal, I'd be concerned if you didn't get excited with your girlfriend. You may just get a little more aroused than others, and that's fine.

[HUSTLEMAN]

What that is just you and your body in the moment of making out with the girl you like which is totally normal. If you do cum prematurely during sex then that's that and try to play it off. Besides, think about what your girl is feeling when she's making out with you.

[Failed Algebra]

hasn't happened to me but i did get a boner (and yeah she noticed) :)
but what's so horrible if you did have some precum cuz you got turned on? I would think you'd WANT to be turned on

[Thaliacea]

Don't worry much about having sex and premature cum . Even if it happens so what , next time try to masturbate before having sex and then , you will last longer :)

But again , that should not be issue , enjoy your relationship mate :)

Plust you are 17 , it is okay , hormones are working :D

[Claire Asteroid]

When I've made out with boys I've noticed they have a hard on :) but I think I'd be freaked out if they actually came when we were kissing.

[TrentTheEeveeLover]

Not at all. Its happened to me as well multiple times. Its just you being in the moment.

[SethfromMI]

It depends on what you mean, cum or precum? And do you mean an actual orgasm?

If its an actual orgasm then yeah you may have some premature problems. You can "train" yourself to hold it back but other than that I'm not sure how to fix this. If its not an orgasm then yeah I'd say you're pretty normal, I'd be concerned if you didn't get excited with your girlfriend. You may just get a little more aroused than others, and that's fine.

this. either way, it is always a good thing to be training;practicing for when you are around your gf

[WengMan3397]

It's probably precum bro. Unless you're actually finishing in your pants everytime you make I wouldn't worry and maybe teach yourself to edge during masturbation? But like the others have said, I'd be way more worried not becoming aroused with your girlfriend/significant other!

[Stephanie 15]

When I make out with a guy he is very hard. If the came in his pants while making out it wouldn't bother me I don't think. I would try what the guys on here said to do.

[Trait]

You probably get pretty horny kissing your girlfriend. Make sense you would cum at bit

[AlisterPSG]

Well I precumed a little as I first kissed my girlfriend. Also she should take it as a complement. (y)

[DaisiesM17]

It's not bad if I'm making out with a guy it's like a compliment to know that he cummed a little just by making out with me, lets me know how much I affect him.

[ChaosEarthquake]

Pre cum is perfectly fine