What should I do?

[From Chris]

So basically I'm going out with this guy I know that school, however we decided to "be boyfriends" over text during our last winter break when we weren't around to see each other. I really like him but I dont know if he really likes me. We haven't really gotten to the stage of actually "loving" each other yet. So the week we got back from school things were super awkward and we barely talked while around each other at school. I was also too nervous to talk to him because we are in a crowd and such and I don't do so well with that as he does (he's an extrovert) so things got awry over time and we didn't talk for a week in school yet we talked over text just fine. We can't seem to ever talk in school for some reason, and I dont know if he's truly interested in me. We have gone to parties together in the past month and we cuddle and hold hands and stuff in private (he is still in the closet) so we can't do that in school. We talk just fine at the parties when we cuddle and hold hands but it's just so weird during school. Another thing Is, he is extremely busy with choir and after school his downtown theatre program so we never really have time to hang out or go on dates. He Warned me it was gonna be complicated and tough because he's so busy and I agreed. I just wish things were a bit smoother. I tried talking to him over text about it but sometimes he just never responds to them and he talks just fine in person as though something wasn't wront or that I sent him a text yknow? I know he's read it because my phone tells me so. I just don't know how to make things better between us. Any advice? Thanks!

-Chris

[SethfromMI]

well I mean sometimes people really are super busy. I guess you are going to have to find time and discuss what you both actually want out of the relationship

[Wyatt 13]

im gonna be honest with u man u sound a bit clingy. give it some time man

[Meh Guy]

well I mean sometimes people really are super busy. I guess you are going to have to find time and discuss what you both actually want out of the relationship

im gonna be honest with u man u sound a bit clingy. give it some time man

These. You sound like you're really happy to be with him, and are maybe worried that he doesn't feel the same. This usually (because you're not the only person who does this) comes off as being too clingy or obsessed. Give the relationship time. As for the awkward points at school, just talk to him as if you two were friends, not boyfriends. It shouldn't make any difference by adding the word boy before the word friend in the way you guys act around others.

[randyboy]

Hey just chill and go with the flow school is school and after school is after school, I am not saying don't be you just remember being who we are is not to everyone's taste and neither of you need any unwanted attention........
Deep I know but how it is. Good luck

[DoodleSnap]

As said above, give it plenty of time, and make sure to communicate well. If you feel worried about how he feels (which will be more complicated due to him still being in the closet), try to 1) give him some space, and 2) speak to him about it. I hope everything goes well.