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onewingedangel666
February 2nd, 2015, 08:39 PM
So I've finnaly admitted it to myself. I don't WANT to get over this girl. The girl i've been chasing a long time cause I fell in love.

But the problem is, she's not available right now. I've been trying to expand my pursuits (Wow i sound like it's a hunt or something XD) to othe rgirls. 3 to be exact...

Now what I need advice on is this- what if, when the orginal girl becomes availible, I'm with one of these girls? And what if I can't think of anything but th other girl while I'm in a relationship with them?
I wouldn't want to get into a relationship, then end it because of another girl.

How would you deal with this? I can think of a few options
1. Just try an stay single
2. Try to get over the first girl (Which i really don't want to do)
3. Try and pretend the girl I might date is the only one on my mind.

To sum up, I want to be with someone now, but I can't get another girl out of my head, and don't want to hurt one of the others.

onewingedangel666
February 2nd, 2015, 08:43 PM
Sorry something happened. ZEditing now!

Thaliacea
February 3rd, 2015, 05:22 AM
Ok . The worst thing you can do is sit and wait ... that will just kill you from inside. Yeah you are in love , the situation isn't bright , but you can't sit and do nothing. First step would be to start the process of "rehabilitation" :D
Try to keep mind off her. Do other things : sports , art , nature ... Don't do drugs and alcohol tho. That will fuck you up even more :D
It is normal to get over someone , and it is easy for me to tell you "get over it dude!" , but really , if she is happy with someone else "let it go" , don't conceal , but feel , with someone else.
You are young , there are many girls , girls are not worth waiting forever...nobody is. Be strong don't show them your fears and weaknesses , they can smell it from far far away :D
Sorry if it was a bit strange , but i hope you got the point. Say to yourself "why am i doing this?!" , go outside and find new love !