First time?

[Pop girl]

Everything has happened to me at 14. I got my first period at 14, had my first real kiss, smoked, drank and lost my virginity all at 14. I know it's horrible. I cried myself to sleep last night. Is 14 too young to have lost my virginity? I feel like I'm ruining my life by doing all this (even though that's what I wanted and we love each other)
if you could fill out this I would love to hear what age everyone did this:

First period-
First tongue kiss-
First time giving bj/hj-
First time getting fingered-
First time being eaten out-
Lost your virginity-
Smoked-
Got drunk for the first time-

[suzzysmith2012]

First period- 13
First tongue kiss- 9
First time giving bj/hj- 11-bj,, 10-hj.
First time getting fingered-10
First time being eaten out-11
Lost your virginity- 12
Smoked- never have, never will.
Got drunk for the first time- never have, don't plan too.

[Meh Guy]

You're not really ruining your life by doing all those things. It's called being a teenager and I would much rather all the stupid and fun stuff now, then in say 10 or 20 years when I have actual responsibilities. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and smoked at age 12 and got drunk first at age 16

[Luminous]

14 is a totally normal age to do all of that, don't feel bad! I was around the same age, and many other people on the forum were even younger. As long as you were safe there's nothing to worry about. I'm not going to fill out the survey (it's a little intrusive for me) but I was 14 for most of those things too.

[BritEmily]

You're not ruining your life by doing any of those things, if you felt ready and you wanted to then there's noting wrong with that.

As for me:

First period- 11
First tongue kiss- 13
First time giving bj/hj- 14
First time getting fingered- 14
First time being eaten out- 14
Lost your virginity- 14
Smoked- Never have.
Got drunk for the first time- 14

[biancachica]

First period-12
First tongue kiss- 13
First time giving bj/hj- 13
First time getting fingered- 13
First time being eaten out- 14
Lost your virginity- 14
Smoked- never
Got drunk for the first time- 15

[Stephanie 15]

First period 13
First tongue kiss 14
First giving a hj/bj 14
First time getting fingered 14
First time being eaten out
Lost my virginity
Never smoked
Never drink

[KellyNC]

First period- 12
First tongue kiss- 12
First time giving bj/hj- 15 for that stuff, but started doing similar things with another girl at 14
First time getting fingered- 14
First time being eaten out- 14
Lost your virginity- 14
Smoked- never
Got drunk for the first time- 16

[NilnocK]

I don't think you're ruining your life at all. Just be careful with who you sleep with, the wrong guy can really fuck things up. In highschool I've seen a lot of friends drive themselves to the ground because they loved someone who was bad for them.

[Cryssy]

First period- 14
First tongue kiss- 12
First time giving bj/hj- 12
First time getting fingered- 12
First time being eaten out- 12
Lost your virginity- 12
Smoked- 14
Got drunk for the first time- 14

[butterflykisses69]

First period- 10
First tongue kiss- 11
First time giving bj/hj- 13
First time getting fingered- 11
First time being eaten out- 11
Lost your virginity- 11 w/ girl, 13 w/ boy
Smoked- 14
Got drunk for the first time- 14

[Isabella_]

First period- 14
First tongue kiss- 11
First time giving bj/hj- 11
First time getting fingered- 11
First time being eaten out- 12
Lost your virginity- 12 (almost 13)
Smoked- never
Got drunk for the first time - never

[cutie123]

First period- 13
First tongue kiss- 12
First time giving bj/hj- 14
First time getting fingered- 14
First time being eaten out- 14
Lost your virginity- 15
Smoked- 17
Got drunk for the first time - never

[Jour_Nuit]

First period-12
First tongue kiss- 13
First time giving bj/hj- 13
First time getting fingered- 13
First time being eaten out- 14
Lost your virginity- 14
Smoked- never
Got drunk for the first time- never

[mrmee]

How are you ever gonna be wise and old, if you're never young and crazy?

[cami]

First period - 11
First tongue kiss - 11
First time giving bj/hj - 12
First time getting fingered - 12
First time being eaten out - 12
Lost your virginity - 12
Smoked - 13. Just once, I'm not a smoker.
Got drunk for the first time - 14.

[nicole97]

First period- 13
First tongue kiss- 12
First time giving bj/hj- 13
First time getting fingered- 13
First time being eaten out- 13
Lost your virginity- 13
Smoked- never
Got drunk for the first time- never honestly, drank for first time at 16 though.

[marrisa]

First period-just turned 10
First tongue kiss-12
First time giving bj/hj-13
First time getting fingered-13
First time being eaten out-13
Lost your virginity- 14
Smoked- 14
Got drunk for the first time-never

[Dracarys]

Nothing wrong but its better to wait. I lost my virginity at 14 and I banged a girl in the stairwell.It wasn't too special.

[The Quiet One]

First period- 10
First tongue kiss- 9
First time giving bj/hj- 9
First time getting fingered- 11
First time being eaten out- 10
Lost your virginity- 8
Smoked- never have, never will
Got drunk for the first time- 13

[ImCoolBeans]

This is not puberty related :locked: