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MoveAlong
April 1st, 2008, 11:33 PM
Is it ok to like more than one person at your school? Once I was talking to this one person and they said "whoa, you like more than one person?" and I was like yeah but is it really that weird? I think it's ok to have more than 1 crush
Atonement
April 1st, 2008, 11:39 PM
Oh yeah, its okay. I have crushes on tons of ladies in my school. And well, I am a huge flirt lol. But yeah, I think its normal.
Gumleaf
April 1st, 2008, 11:39 PM
its not weird at all. we are guys and at our age its normal, i know if have been in that situation myself. it only gets a bit tricky if you are in a relationship and you start to like someone else. thats the only time when it would be a problem or considered weird.
happytimes
April 2nd, 2008, 12:03 AM
perfectly normal. I have about 5 crushes right now. crushes in my understanding is just a special attraction to someone (doesn't count when you see someone hot on the street. thats just lust). You have this really warm feeling when you see your crush. Having multiple crush feels really good. just be sure you don't get into a relationship with all of them. that's bad.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
April 2nd, 2008, 12:04 AM
Even having a crush on someone else while in a relationship is ok in my book. Little crushes happen. If you were in a relationship with someone, but you liked someone else way more and would rather be with that someone else... that's a problem. But like I said crushes happen and, especially in your case where you're not in a relationship, multiple crushes are normal and ok to have.
happytimes
April 2nd, 2008, 12:54 AM
Even having a crush on someone else while in a relationship is ok in my book. Little crushes happen. If you were in a relationship with someone, but you liked someone else way more and would rather be with that someone else... that's a problem. But like I said crushes happen and, especially in your case where you're not in a relationship, multiple crushes are normal and ok to have.
agreed. crushes are just minor attraction to somebody and is not considered unfaithful to your partner while you're in a relationship.
MoveAlong
April 2nd, 2008, 07:32 PM
aha I thought so! thanks
scatman
April 2nd, 2008, 07:43 PM
its k in my book i like 2 people right now as well
koolcat
April 2nd, 2008, 07:44 PM
ya it is very normal!!! at this age we would have a crush on anthing that breath's and has boobs......lol:cool:
MoveAlong
April 2nd, 2008, 07:48 PM
ah but for me it's anything that breathes and has nice pecs
ohh, and he has to be cute!! ok im done :P
iJack
April 3rd, 2008, 12:11 AM
totally ok,
i have 2 crushes, one is cute, one is nice and dating :(
Serenity
April 3rd, 2008, 09:34 AM
Of course it's ok to have more than one crush. I mean think about it:
You develop crushes on people who have qualities you admire/enjoy/are attracted to. How can you possibly force yourself to only be attracted to one person who has the characteristics you most like about a person when there are in fact many people who have them to varying degrees? Quite simply, you can't.
dudesweet101
April 4th, 2008, 06:24 PM
Pretty normal. I used to talk to several girls at the same. But I like my gf/
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