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martimour
February 1st, 2015, 09:13 AM
Hello there. My name is Martin and I am 14 years old. I live in Denmark. I guess what you can call me is a late bloomer, since i started making semen just 2 weeks ago. Since there are threads regarding semen cleanup I just wanted to ask this: If I masturbate in my bed, ejaculate on myself and wipe my semen with Kleenex, or toilet paper from my hands and body, is it ok to put my clothes back on me? Is all the semen gone or I would have to wash the clothes later on?
And one more thing. I always wash my hands after masturbation, but I am worried that if any semen is left on my hands, and I open the door to my room and then to the bathroom, I would get semen on the doorknobs and I don't want anyone to touch it. What do you guys do? Is wiping my hands enough?

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February 1st, 2015, 10:30 AM
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martimour
February 1st, 2015, 12:04 PM
Ok, thanks a lot, i did not know that before.

Dennis98
February 1st, 2015, 12:07 PM
Whatever you think that is OK , then do it ... Some guys find semen gross , so they shower after it , some are really hairy like me , and then I have to take shower , some don't like you . I think that just wiping your hands isn't enough , just wash your hands with soap God damn .. xD

martimour
February 1st, 2015, 12:15 PM
As I said, I do wash my hands, i was wondering if i had to wipe the doorknobs as well, that is all. Thanks

sdude
February 1st, 2015, 12:19 PM
If they turned a blue light on in my room, I doubt there would be many places they didn't find some leftover spooge on just about everything! There are worse things people touch than your semen dude....there are millions more germs on a kitchen sponge than any toilet seat you ever sat on. It's pretty much harmless once it's exposed to air...Even the AIDS virus can't exist once exposed to oxygen for over 10 seconds. Cleaning up with a Kleenex or your underwear is good enough man, washing your hands is always good, but my guess is you will be touching your dick again before long, so, stop worrying and enjoy the great feelings it gives u...it's totally natural and mostly just protein...

Dennis98
February 1st, 2015, 12:19 PM
As I said, I do wash my hands, i was wondering if i had to wipe the doorknobs as well, that is all. Thanks

If you touch doorknobs with hands filled with semen , then yes .

martimour
February 1st, 2015, 12:44 PM
Well, they are not filled with semen, just wiped with kleenex. How do people have sex outdoors? It is not possible for them to wash, they must be using wipes.

randyboy
February 1st, 2015, 12:53 PM
I'd get baby wipes (wet ones). tissue or toilet roll is just messy and gets sticky and leaves little bits, or invest in a wank sock. Your spunk can not make anyone ill or kill them (well, I don't think so).

Enjoy your cock and your spunk.

Dennis98
February 1st, 2015, 12:54 PM
Well, they are not filled with semen, just wiped with kleenex. How do people have sex outdoors? It is not possible for them to wash, they must be using wipes.

Then , there is no reason to wash doorknobs , but you SHOULD wash your hands .. Normal people have sex between 4 walls , not like animals in public .

andy_910
February 1st, 2015, 01:32 PM
Use a wank sock or some used underwear and unless you're grossed out about it then you really just have to wipe it off your hands, its not gonna hurt you.

JamesSuperBoy
February 1st, 2015, 04:01 PM
I think its best to be prepared so have tissues by your bed - if you are concerned about door handles etc then you can cover your hand with a tissue and open/close doors -

Zachary G
February 1st, 2015, 04:30 PM
its safe to use tissues to wipe your body and your hands, but its also a good idea to use a wet cloth to wipe up again when you are done. i dont think you have to worry about leaving any semen anywhere, like on your clothes or door knob after you have wiped up, i am sure you would have gotten it all.

martimour
February 1st, 2015, 05:53 PM
Thank you Zac, James, Sean, Ian and Andy, for the wonderful responses. And I do use baby wipes with warm water, on my chest, so i guess there is no problem to put my shirt back on my body :)

riverboy
February 1st, 2015, 05:57 PM
The baby wipes and water will do a good job cleaning up. After your body, use it on the door knob. But I don't think you need to do the door knob.

jssixna
February 2nd, 2015, 02:47 AM
How about cumming onto the tissue instead of on your body. It's easier to clean and you won't get it on your hands.

martimour
February 2nd, 2015, 03:30 AM
Thank you, Peter and Carter. Well, yes, I think I am gonna use your tips. I can always place some towel or paper towel on my chest and belly and finish there. About my hands, well, they will always get something on them, cause i make tons of precum, so naturally, i would use it as a lube. So, my hands have to be wiped under any circumstances.
And I wanted the perspective of what a ''normal'' boy would do, as I have heard so many stories about guys who ejaculate on their chest, then wipe and roll over to sleep, and taking shower in the morning(eventually) I guess there is not a single standard but it varies from person to person.

JamesSuperBoy
February 2nd, 2015, 04:47 AM
Thank you, Peter and Carter. Well, yes, I think I am gonna use your tips. I can always place some towel or paper towel on my chest and belly and finish there. About my hands, well, they will always get something on them, cause i make tons of precum, so naturally, i would use it as a lube. So, my hands have to be wiped under any circumstances.
And I wanted the perspective of what a ''normal'' boy would do, as I have heard so many stories about guys who ejaculate on their chest, then wipe and roll over to sleep, and taking shower in the morning(eventually) I guess there is not a single standard but it varies from person to person.

Did I miss a bit what about a condom. Mostly I need to get up and pee after I

but is good you add to replies.

martimour
February 2nd, 2015, 05:00 AM
Well, a condom is expensive and I do not have the money for it, plus I think it is important for me to learn to be comfortable with my own semen and to not treat is like poison. Maybe I am disgusting, but sometimes I like the warm feeling when it lands on my chest and stomach, and that is why I was asking about a proper cleanup way of this area :)
Thank you, James! Thank you all for not mocking me or laughing at me :)

JamesSuperBoy
February 2nd, 2015, 06:51 AM
Its ok - I would think as you say its only been 2 weeks - so yeah you will get used to it

lemondrop
February 2nd, 2015, 03:02 PM
There's nothing wrong with that,mmm its like a some kind of sticky mass,it can't do under your nails or etc... i guess,you can just wash your hands with soap(that's what i do) and wipe it of with towel,just wash it fully,spend like 1minute and its fine. ^^

NickC
February 2nd, 2015, 04:17 PM
Hello there. My name is Martin and I am 14 years old. I live in Denmark. I guess what you can call me is a late bloomer, since i started making semen just 2 weeks ago. Since there are threads regarding semen cleanup I just wanted to ask this: If I masturbate in my bed, ejaculate on myself and wipe my semen with Kleenex, or toilet paper from my hands and body, is it ok to put my clothes back on me? Is all the semen gone or I would have to wash the clothes later on?
And one more thing. I always wash my hands after masturbation, but I am worried that if any semen is left on my hands, and I open the door to my room and then to the bathroom, I would get semen on the doorknobs and I don't want anyone to touch it. What do you guys do? Is wiping my hands enough?

It is all really based on your personal feelings/preference. Like, when i masturbate, i just always cum (the slang word for semen and sperm) on my stomach and chest. I don't really mind cum that much, it doesn't gross me out at all. After i masturbate, i just wipe my cum up with a towel and then i just put my clothes back on. I don't wash my hands or anything. It is technically OK for you to put your clothes back on you after you masturbate. The cum is not technically all gone (it will never be all gone off your body until you wash your body off. And there will be some non-visible trace of cum on your clothes and that will not come off until you wash your clothes.) but the cum will not be visible on you at all. The only way the cum can be appear on you or on your clothes is if a special kind of light is put on you. That special kind of light is called a "black light" (also known as a "ultraviolet light"). Black lights are not really used in everyday life at all. They are only mainly used in places such as night clubs. And black light is used with police and doctors because black light pretty much picks up anything. Black light reveals blood (when the black light is shown on a surface where there was blood, then a pink light will appear on the parts of the surface where the blood was), it reveals cum (with a bright white light), it reveals vomit (orange light), it also is used to pick up counterfeit items (like money, passports, etc.). So yea, other than that, there is really no reason for you to worry about your cum.

sprint
February 2nd, 2015, 04:59 PM
Put a piece of paper on the ground and cum on to that.

riverboy
February 2nd, 2015, 04:59 PM
I never thought of a condom but I don't use one because of the cost. I like cumming on my chest and stomach and will wipe it off with a dirty shirt or undies. I do take a shower in the morning.

hockeyfan
February 2nd, 2015, 06:32 PM
After u use Kleenex, I would wipe again with a wet washcloth or something

Ricky.h
February 2nd, 2015, 06:41 PM
When I nut, I just leave it to dry like I don't clean up or anything because there's nothing dirty about it, and when I'm jacking off or having sex I'm not really thinking about where it's going and plus the way my household is everyone is relaxed on sex, nudity and things of that nature, so it's not uncommon to see some cum stains on sheets or see someone walking around with dried nut on them it's perfectly Normal

Hermes
February 2nd, 2015, 07:07 PM
It's up to you.

Like you i let the cum land on my stomach/chest and then wipe it up afterwards, though I use a towel or the underwear I have taken off rather than tissues but they all do the same job. No, wiping won't get 100% of it off but that doesn't matter - no-one is going to see obvious stains or be offended by the smell from the tiny bit that remains.

Sometimes I think people worry too much about being clean. Yes, of course wash your hands after defecatinga and before eating but other that that relax a bit.

martimour
February 2nd, 2015, 09:04 PM
It is all really based on your personal feelings/preference. Like, when i masturbate, i just always cum (the slang word for semen and sperm) on my stomach and chest. I don't really mind cum that much, it doesn't gross me out at all. After i masturbate, i just wipe my cum up with a towel and then i just put my clothes back on. I don't wash my hands or anything. It is technically OK for you to put your clothes back on you after you masturbate. The cum is not technically all gone (it will never be all gone off your body until you wash your body off. And there will be some non-visible trace of cum on your clothes and that will not come off until you wash your clothes.) but the cum will not be visible on you at all. The only way the cum can be appear on you or on your clothes is if a special kind of light is put on you. That special kind of light is called a "black light" (also known as a "ultraviolet light"). Black lights are not really used in everyday life at all. They are only mainly used in places such as night clubs. And black light is used with police and doctors because black light pretty much picks up anything. Black light reveals blood (when the black light is shown on a surface where there was blood, then a pink light will appear on the parts of the surface where the blood was), it reveals cum (with a bright white light), it reveals vomit (orange light), it also is used to pick up counterfeit items (like money, passports, etc.). So yea, other than that, there is really no reason for you to worry about your cum.

So what you are saying, Nick, is that i should not fight with getting it all clean, but to embrace the fact there is gonna be some semen around, and this is ok? I should aim for cleaning ''good enough'' and not perfect?

When I nut, I just leave it to dry like I don't clean up or anything because there's nothing dirty about it, and when I'm jacking off or having sex I'm not really thinking about where it's going and plus the way my household is everyone is relaxed on sex, nudity and things of that nature, so it's not uncommon to see some cum stains on sheets or see someone walking around with dried nut on them it's perfectly Normal

Are you serious Ricky? You are so relaxed about semen?

It's up to you.

Like you i let the cum land on my stomach/chest and then wipe it up afterwards, though I use a towel or the underwear I have taken off rather than tissues but they all do the same job. No, wiping won't get 100% of it off but that doesn't matter - no-one is going to see obvious stains or be offended by the smell from the tiny bit that remains.

Sometimes I think people worry too much about being clean. Yes, of course wash your hands after defecating and before eating but other that that relax a bit.

Yes, it is true no one is going to see any stains, but I am thinking that if people knew there was some semen on the doorknobs, even if some insignificant quantity, thy would not want to touch the doorknobs. They would run to wash their hands, right away. That is what makes me so anxious about the cleanup.

riverboy
February 2nd, 2015, 09:17 PM
Try wiping the doorknob with a wet towel or a towel that is wet. You don't need much to clean the door knob.

Ricky.h
February 2nd, 2015, 09:30 PM
Are you serious Ricky? You are so relaxed about semen?

Yes what's wrong with it there's nothing wrong with it

martimour
February 2nd, 2015, 09:59 PM
No, I am not judging you, or anything, whatever floats your boat, i was just wondering does not it feel sticky on your hands and body? Don't you think other people would be grossed if they were in your house and touching your semen?

jamesh
February 2nd, 2015, 10:11 PM
An easy option is to just do it in the shower - you already have privacy, and the cleanup takes care of itself.

Just be careful you don't slip!

martimour
February 2nd, 2015, 11:24 PM
An easy option is to just do it in the shower - you already have privacy, and the cleanup takes care of itself.

Just be careful you don't slip!

Hey James, thanks! Yes, I have tried it in the shower, but it takes a long time for me to finish and my family wonders what I am doing there for that long. Also semen coagulates with water and becomes all horrible to clean. Lastly, I produce too much precum, and after I ejaculate it keeps on sipping for up to 2 hours, despite all my efforts to milk it out and all the peeing i do. I cannot stay in the shower for 2 hours, evidently. So, shower is no option for me :(

NickC
February 3rd, 2015, 01:32 AM
So what you are saying, Nick, is that i should not fight with getting it all clean, but to embrace the fact there is gonna be some semen around, and this is ok? I should aim for cleaning ''good enough'' and not perfect?

Pretty much dude. Most of the guys that i know do not really care about semen/sperm at all. The is really no reason for you to wash your hands (or hop in the shower or wash your clothes or put on new clothes) after you masturbate. All you really have to do is just wipe your semen/sperm off your dick, balls, pubic hair, stomach, chest, and hands. Just wipe it up with something like a dirty towel (a fabric is much easier than a tissue because a fabric soaks things up better)(or even better, just do what i usually do, just cum onto your bed sheets. I mean, it is your cum, so you shouldnt be afraid to touch it or lay in it lol.). And then just go about your day.

Thaliacea
February 3rd, 2015, 05:33 AM
Semen will "die" anyway after few days hahahhaha :D kidding

I do ejaculate on myself , then i wipe it and sometimes take shower sometimes not.

martimour
February 3rd, 2015, 06:16 AM
Semen will "die" anyway after few days hahahhaha :D kidding

I do ejaculate on myself , then i wipe it and sometimes take shower sometimes not.

Do you use kleenex, wet wipes? Do you just dress after that, before washing your hands? Or you don't wash them?

Thaliacea
February 3rd, 2015, 06:24 AM
i use toilet paper . Yup , i wipe it with underwear sometimes. Sperm is natural thing , it disintegrates fast.

martimour
February 3rd, 2015, 06:45 AM
i use toilet paper . Yup , i wipe it with underwear sometimes. Sperm is natural thing , it disintegrates fast.

And then you dress? What if you got some on your hands? Do you choose to wash them or not? I guess you don't wash the doorknobs the way i do...

I apologize if I sound like a weirdo...

Hermes
February 3rd, 2015, 08:56 AM
...Maybe I am disgusting, but sometimes I like the warm feeling when it lands on my chest and stomach...

Me too, that's the main reason I let it shoot onto my chest and stomach, the other one being that it is a large area and means I am not distracted from the orgasm by worrying about where I am aiming. For me this second point is important, though I guess I could get that same freedom from aiming by putting a towel over my chest/stomach or doing it in the shower but I find it harder to cum in the shower and either way I'd be sacrificing the warm feeling of it landing on my skin.

The way I see it there is nothing disgusting about semen so why let concerns about staying "clean" reduce your enjoyment?

Yes, it is true no one is going to see any stains, but I am thinking that if people knew there was some semen on the doorknobs, even if some insignificant quantity, thy would not want to touch the doorknobs. They would run to wash their hands, right away. That is what makes me so anxious about the cleanup.

I think you open a whole can of worms there. I saw an item on the TV here in the UK where they mentioned bowls of peanuts which apparently used to be placed on the bar in pubs for people to help themselves to. Someone had the bright idea to examine the peanuts in a lab and were able to distinguish traces of many different guys urine on the peanuts. If you ever use a public building what have the people handling the doors there had on their hands immediately prior? In the end we have to accept that many of the things we touch have a variety of things on them we can't see but it doesn't seem to do us any harm.

There are a few times when washing hands is good:

1. After defacating or getting faeces (shit) on them.
2. After handling raw meat or fish.
3. Before you eat, especially if you will be eating with your fingers.

Other than that don't stress about it.

Thaliacea
February 3rd, 2015, 11:38 AM
And then you dress? What if you got some on your hands? Do you choose to wash them or not? I guess you don't wash the doorknobs the way i do...

I apologize if I sound like a weirdo...

Nope , iam weirdo xD

I wash my hands , but not doorknobs .

Guitarguy9
February 3rd, 2015, 11:46 AM
I just wipe up with a towel or something. I leave the shower for the next day, although i wash my hands. I wouldn't worry about leaving any semen anywhere after you touch an object. To be honest, if you shined a backlight in my room it would look like a Jackson Pollack painting, lol.

martimour
February 3rd, 2015, 05:59 PM
So, from the posts I understand that guys do not clean that much, at all, and they are aware that some semen is most likely present into their rooms. But they simply don't care, as long as it is not visible. So, i guess your suggestions, guys is to accept the idea that some small parts of my semen are present, and that is totally fine? Like nothing can be perfect? What if i masturbate outside or have sex outdoors? What would you use? Just tissues and wet wipes to clean yourself?

Syrum
February 4th, 2015, 12:01 AM
I generally just use a tissue, works for me, but everyone has their own way of doing stuff! Then wash after.

ashdaniel
February 4th, 2015, 12:57 AM
Well, it up to you with your idea of hygiene . Usually u can use the paper to cover your penis head before ejaculate and safe allot of mess. Don't worry about the sperm it is like saliva it don't hurt anyone.

IceCore
February 4th, 2015, 01:46 AM
Wipe your hands well with whatever you want, then go wash your hands real good. Dont ejaculate on yourself, so you dont have to undress. Do it on a kleenex instead.

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 02:28 AM
Wipe your hands well with whatever you want, then go wash your hands real good. Dont ejaculate on yourself, so you dont have to undress. Do it on a kleenex instead.

But why should i wash them?

Thaliacea
February 4th, 2015, 02:40 AM
So you dont "feel" dirty. Penis can be really dirty place :D

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 04:17 AM
Thanks Thaliacea

Hideous
February 4th, 2015, 03:56 PM
Hello there. My name is Martin and I am 14 years old. I live in Denmark.

Well, hello there, Martin.

I guess what you can call me is a late bloomer, since i started making semen just 2 weeks ago. Since there are threads regarding semen cleanup I just wanted to ask this:

Go ahead.

If I masturbate in my bed, ejaculate on myself and wipe my semen with Kleenex, or toilet paper from my hands and body, is it ok to put my clothes back on me?

Yes, it is okay to put your clothes back on. Make sure you cleaned up all of the excess semen.

Is all the semen gone or I would have to wash the clothes later on?

I'm pretty sure since you've wiped it off with a tissue or something, you're okay. Although, you might want to laundry your clothes the morning after, or whenever you do laundry.

And one more thing. I always wash my hands after masturbation, but I am worried that if any semen is left on my hands, and I open the door to my room and then to the bathroom, I would get semen on the doorknobs and I don't want anyone to touch it. What do you guys do? Is wiping my hands enough?

Semen is not a bacteria, (but can be presented with HIV or STDs, but based on your background, I am absolutely certain you don't have any of the ones listed) it will not spread. Washing your hands will get rid of the semen.

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 05:00 PM
Thank you, John, so much, I am pretty much fine with it, if I am at home, as I have water here, but I just worry about it, if it happens outside. Like I was on a road trip and had a wet dream and could only use toilet paper to clean myself, nothing else, so i was not sure if this was enough. Alcohol wipes kill all, but i think i am getting over the board if i use them on myself.

Hermes
February 4th, 2015, 08:57 PM
...What if i masturbate outside or have sex outdoors? What would you use? Just tissues and wet wipes to clean yourself?

Not wishing to make fun but I am not going to head out to the woods or a lovers' lane with a portable shower.

Assuming you have a reasonable idea that you will be masturbating or having sex where you are going yes, I'd go prepared with something to wipe up like a small towel, wet wipes or a pack of travel tissues and also a small plastic bag to put them in after you have finished so you don't leave litter.

Of course if you are masturbating outdoors you have the option to let the cum shoot away from you and just leave it where it lands - the ultimate in "no cleanup". Also if you are having sex with a condom that will make cleaning up a bit easier.

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 09:39 PM
Thank you so much, Hermes, I was thinking to bring alcohol wipes(80% alcohol), but then again, semen is not a waste product and does not have germs, so disinfecting does not seem to be the right thing to do...bringing those alcohol wipes would be insanity, in my opinion

randyboy
February 4th, 2015, 09:46 PM
Its ok - I would think as you say its only been 2 weeks - so yeah you will get used to it

Absolutely!!!

Its your fluid and it's harmless aww unless it goes to the right location.

Enjoy mate wank sock and wet ones or even spunk over/in a wet one.

Condoms are dead horny easy to empty wash out blow in to, dust a little talc on a towel then towel dry, ready for rolling and mess free wanking..... I learnt this from a mate and a thing on line.

Enjoy your cock it's what it's there for!

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 10:01 PM
Absolutely!!!

Its your fluid and it's harmless aww unless it goes to the right location.

Enjoy mate wank sock and wet ones or even spunk over/in a wet one.

Condoms are dead horny easy to empty wash out blow in to, dust a little talc on a towel then towel dry, ready for rolling and mess free wanking..... I learnt this from a mate and a thing on line.

Enjoy your cock it's what it's there for!

Yeah, but how about washing my hands after wanking? How many guys are content with just wiping the semen off their hands and not washing?

Silicate Wielder
February 4th, 2015, 10:46 PM
Personally, i'm a gross once when it comes to my cum. It's good for skin, so as long as it isn't smelling or anything, I will leave it or rub it in as lotion. Actually, i think this is why my excema never acts up on abdomin. :P

singularity678
February 4th, 2015, 10:52 PM
ive heard some people eat their own,but its gross,ive tried it

martimour
February 4th, 2015, 11:33 PM
Personally, i'm a gross once when it comes to my cum. It's good for skin, so as long as it isn't smelling or anything, I will leave it or rub it in as lotion. Actually, i think this is why my excema never acts up on abdomin. :P

Are you serious, Michael? Do you at least wash your hands?

Hermes
February 5th, 2015, 07:42 AM
Personally, i'm a gross once when it comes to my cum. It's good for skin, so as long as it isn't smelling or anything, I will leave it or rub it in as lotion. Actually, i think this is why my excema never acts up on abdomin. :P

Did you get eczema on your abdomen before you started rubbing cum into it? You're not the first person I have seen who has said something like that but I don't know if anyone has properly studied this. Nevertheless if it works for you then great.

Normally, after I cum I lose interest and just wipe up but occasionally I have had a whim and put my hand in the cum and rubbed it all over my chest/stomach. I do wipe afterwards though and also wipe my hands. If you leave the whole load there to dry and then do something that makes you sweat it can smell.

Are you serious, Michael? Do you at least wash your hands?

At the time I normally wipe any cum off my hands. They'll get washed anyway fairly soon for some other reason but my immediate concern is to avoid getting cum on anything else that would make cleanup harder.

Emerald Dream
February 7th, 2015, 08:18 AM
The OP is banned. :locked: