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mattsmith48
January 30th, 2015, 12:38 AM
A few weeks ago I receive a HJ from another boy for the first time and it was the best one I ever got. Earlier tonight after a hockey game I was in the shower and the same guy came in and he started jerking me off I stop him and said I don’t think its fair that he give me a HJ and he doesn’t get anything out of it. He said that he doesn’t care. He finish me off in his car after cuz I didn’t want to get caught. After he told me anytime I want one I just need to tell him. Now im feeling bad that im kinda taking advantage of him. How can I stop having that feeling? Should I return him the favour or something? What would you do? btw im straight and I have never done anything with a guy before

Thanks for your help

andy_910
January 30th, 2015, 12:55 AM
I've never done anything with a guy either but next time he does it then I'd return the favour. I bet it felt really good. Do you know if he's gay? I hope I get to jerk off with some friends one day and I'm straight too.

mattsmith48
January 30th, 2015, 01:10 AM
I've never done anything with a guy either but next time he does it then I'd return the favour. I bet it felt really good. Do you know if he's gay? I hope I get to jerk off with some friends one day and I'm straight too.

Acutally he's bi. I have receive HJ from about 10 girls the two that guy give me were the best one I ever got

Dutchstranger18
January 30th, 2015, 10:18 AM
If you want to you can return the favour, but if you don`t then it`s ok because he said he`s fine with it so :)

Meh Guy
January 30th, 2015, 10:40 AM
A few weeks ago I receive a HJ from another boy for the first time and it was the best one I ever got. Earlier tonight after a hockey game I was in the shower and the same guy came in and he started jerking me off I stop him and said I don’t think its fair that he give me a HJ and he doesn’t get anything out of it. He said that he doesn’t care. He finish me off in his car after cuz I didn’t want to get caught. After he told me anytime I want one I just need to tell him. Now im feeling bad that im kinda taking advantage of him. How can I stop having that feeling? Should I return him the favour or something? What would you do? btw im straight and I have never done anything with a guy before

Thanks for your help

You shouldn't feel bad and according to what you said, it doesn't sound like you are taking advantage of him. If it does bother you, you can ask if you can return the favor. And a handjob isn't really gay or not, it's pretty much the same thing as jerking off, just with someone else, and is fairly common amongst teens.
I give my straight friends handjobs all the time and don't expect anything back. Sometimes they give me one, sometimes they don't, I don't mind, I'm just helping my friends out.

If you don't feel comfortable however, ask him to stop. But it sounds like you like it ;)

mattsmith48
January 30th, 2015, 11:10 AM
You shouldn't feel bad and according to what you said, it doesn't sound like you are taking advantage of him. If it does bother you, you can ask if you can return the favor. And a handjob isn't really gay or not, it's pretty much the same thing as jerking off, just with someone else, and is fairly common amongst teens.
I give my straight friends handjobs all the time and don't expect anything back. Sometimes they give me one, sometimes they don't, I don't mind, I'm just helping my friends out.

If you don't feel comfortable however, ask him to stop. But it sounds like you like it ;)

Why do you give your straight friends HJ?

Meh Guy
January 30th, 2015, 11:31 AM
mattsmith48 I'm really close with most of them and when they're single we sometimes jerk off together. I don't really know why I just like helping my friends out :)

Bull
January 30th, 2015, 11:33 AM
The hj I got from a guy was vastly better than what I get from my gf.

Zachary G
January 30th, 2015, 11:47 AM
some people are just into pleasing other people and not concerned about their own pleasure because they get pleasure in making a person feel good. its up to you if you want to return thee favor, but you dont have to because he doesnt seem really that interested in being done. its your call

Dennis98
January 30th, 2015, 02:42 PM
If you don't know that guy very well , you can get STD or AIDS . It isn't harmless at all ...

mattsmith48
January 30th, 2015, 08:56 PM
If you don't know that guy very well , you can get STD or AIDS . It isn't harmless at all ...

You cant get STDs from a HJ

Hideous
January 30th, 2015, 09:07 PM
How can I stop having that feeling?

Either you tell him to stop giving you hand jobs, or you just let him do whatever he wants to you since you liked it anyways.

Should I return him the favour or something?

That's up to you, and from the looks of it, I don't think it bothers him.

What would you do?

I'm gay but I would only give a hj or a bj to the person I'm in a relationship with, I don't do friends or pretty much, strangers.

Canadian Dream
January 31st, 2015, 12:18 AM
From what I know from my experience with that stuff, it's a polite thing to ask them to return the favor but only do it with their consent. If he doesn't want you to touch him then you don't, and it's important you don't insist. But if he does let you if you ask then go ahead, it's a matter of what both of you want out of it.

Dennis98
January 31st, 2015, 08:01 AM
You cant get STDs from a HJ

If person that has AIDS , during HJ just cut you little bit , just little bit with nail , be sure that you have more than 80% chances to get AIDS ... It is true you can't get other STDs just from hands , but if person that has some type of STD just kiss him or spit during HJ , he will surely get it ..

mattsmith48
February 1st, 2015, 11:23 PM
If person that has AIDS , during HJ just cut you little bit , just little bit with nail , be sure that you have more than 80% chances to get AIDS ... It is true you can't get other STDs just from hands , but if person that has some type of STD just kiss him or spit during HJ , he will surely get it ..

The only way to get aids from a HJ is if the giver as a cut on his hand and the receiver on is dick

andy_910
February 2nd, 2015, 12:18 AM
Haha live life on the edge, man!! Actually don't be stupid but I would think the odds of getting AIDS are low. But I don't know that for a fact so don't listen to me.

fast8
February 2nd, 2015, 12:57 AM
If u want do it back if not just enjoy it he seems happy just to be doing it to u

SethfromMI
February 2nd, 2015, 09:58 AM
Acutally he's bi. I have receive HJ from about 10 girls the two that guy give me were the best one I ever got

well guys know how to give hand jobs better because they do it so often to themselves. and you can def offer to give him one if he wants one. but hey just may like giving them, which, nothing wrong with that

riverboy
February 2nd, 2015, 10:05 AM
I would return the favor if he wants it. Otherwise just enjoy it there is nothing to feel guilty.

NilnocK
February 6th, 2015, 12:23 AM
If you want to continue doing that, you should offer to return the favor, Don't just use him for gratification and don't feel pressured to do anything with him if you don't feel comfortable.

Andrew.1
February 7th, 2015, 10:47 AM
Well it's not taking advantage of him if he's fine with it so you shouldn't feel guilty

TSUNAMI
February 11th, 2015, 09:31 PM
A few weeks ago I receive a HJ from another boy for the first time and it was the best one I ever got. Earlier tonight after a hockey game I was in the shower and the same guy came in and he started jerking me off I stop him and said I don’t think its fair that he give me a HJ and he doesn’t get anything out of it. He said that he doesn’t care. He finish me off in his car after cuz I didn’t want to get caught. After he told me anytime I want one I just need to tell him. Now im feeling bad that im kinda taking advantage of him. How can I stop having that feeling? Should I return him the favour or something? What would you do? btw im straight and I have never done anything with a guy before

Thanks for your help

I have give and receive HJ and BJ from other guys before it's just a polite thing to ask him if he wants you to return him the favour

lancezer
February 15th, 2015, 08:21 PM
some people are just into pleasing other people and not concerned about their own pleasure because they get pleasure in making a person feel good. its up to you if you want to return thee favor, but you dont have to because he doesnt seem really that interested in being done. its your call

true thats why I do for brother/friend of mine makes him happy so all good