Can't get over her

[Fariko AK]

I was in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 months and then we were forced to break up. Ever since then I haven't been able to get over her or move on. She doesn't want to get back together cause she thinks it would be a rebound date. I'm lost and broken.

[ImCoolBeans]

Unfortunately if she doesn't want to get back together, there isn't much you can do except move on. You can continue to feel sorry for yourself, and linger on the feelings for months, but that will only make you feel worse over time, and will likely make it harder to move on when the time comes. My advice to you is to try to stop thinking about her as much, and accept the fact that it is over. If you can accept that, and start to work on your healing after the breakup, then you are on your way to getting over the break up.

[Babs]

Unfortunately if she doesn't want to get back together, there isn't much you can do except move on. You can continue to feel sorry for yourself, and linger on the feelings for months, but that will only make you feel worse over time, and will likely make it harder to move on when the time comes. My advice to you is to try to stop thinking about her as much, and accept the fact that it is over. If you can accept that, and start to work on your healing after the breakup, then you are on your way to getting over the break up.

This.

Move on. No point in dwelling on the past.

[Body odah Man]

Sadly what Im cool Beans says is correct: you can't change her mind so you need to move on. It sucks, is annoying and is really hard but must be done. I myself have loved and still have a crush on many women who have never reciprocated it and have never been able to let go completely so I understand ur struggle. Good luck man

[DoodleSnap]

Another post echoing the above; try to move on. It will be hard at first, and coping with the pain won't be a cake-walk, but moving on and finding out what else is out there in the world for you is part of growing up and attaining a healthy attitude towards realtionships.

[Meh Guy]

Unfortunately if she doesn't want to get back together, there isn't much you can do except move on. You can continue to feel sorry for yourself, and linger on the feelings for months, but that will only make you feel worse over time, and will likely make it harder to move on when the time comes. My advice to you is to try to stop thinking about her as much, and accept the fact that it is over. If you can accept that, and start to work on your healing after the breakup, then you are on your way to getting over the break up.

This is true. The longer you dwell over the past, the harder it will be to move on completely. I know it's hard to get over breaking up sometimes, usually harder on one then the other. But you have to buck up, and look at what the future may hold, not what the past has brought.

Hope it works out for you :)

[maniamsmart]

Unfortunately if she doesn't want to get back together, there isn't much you can do except move on. You can continue to feel sorry for yourself, and linger on the feelings for months, but that will only make you feel worse over time, and will likely make it harder to move on when the time comes. My advice to you is to try to stop thinking about her as much, and accept the fact that it is over. If you can accept that, and start to work on your healing after the breakup, then you are on your way to getting over the break up.

This is the best advice I could give as well. Start talking to new people, hang out with your friends, and keep yourself busy. Find the flaws in her and allow yourself to find the good in others. Good luck!