STRAIGHT GUYS - Sex conversation with best friend

[andy_910]

Hey guys. How do you bring up conversations about sex with a friend for the first time? My best friend and I haven't talked about sex before but I don't know what to say. We are both straight and have been best friends for a while and I want to have someone to talk to about sex and masterbating and stuff.

Let me be clear. I'm not trying to experiment and I'm certainly not wanting to HAVE sex with him, I just want to talk to him about sexual things. Please DON'T post stories about having sex with your friend cause that's what got my post deleted last time.

[aalleexx]

Well, you can start talking about girls and,somehow, you can bring sex subject in the conversation.

[Swimmer98]

Well I don't know what grade your in or anything but after being in Health class my friends and I have been more open talking about sex, masturbating, and etc to each other now. Try to bring it up sometime in conversation as like a question or something. I asked my best friend about it and I was really nervous but it was fine, still talk about stuff today.

[Catholic Guy]

Do you guys have sleepovers or anything? You could have one and then offer rates to people on Instagram or something and then talk about people, say who you would bang, stuff like that and say that you've wanked to a picture of someone really hot before or something

[nick_1999]

Dude, you've posted this same thread 3 or 4 different times. Stop...

[andy_910]

Dude, you've posted this same thread 3 or 4 different times. Stop...

Yeah and it's been deleted multiple times. Sorry, i'm not trying to be annoying, just trying to get advice.

[andy_910]

Thanks guys for the advice, i'll try your suggestions. Anyone else got any ideas?

[Dennis98]

Well, you can start talking about girls and,somehow, you can bring sex subject in the conversation.

Exactly ... Eventually , it will lead to talking about sex related things ..

[boytoynamedtroy]

Hey guys. How do you bring up conversations about sex with a friend for the first time? My best friend and I haven't talked about sex before but I don't know what to say. We are both straight and have been best friends for a while and I want to have someone to talk to about sex and masterbating and stuff.

Let me be clear. I'm not trying to experiment and I'm certainly not wanting to HAVE sex with him, I just want to talk to him about sexual things. Please DON'T post stories about having sex with your friend cause that's what got my post deleted last time.

I'm not straight, but I am a guy. And one thing about guys is sex is always a cool topic. Just talk about it whenever it comes up, like when you're somewhere where you can check people out, not in a place where sex would be incredibly off-topic. If you're best friends really, then both of you should be comfortable about it, as long as you don't get freaky. However, if you feel otherwise, then just stop talking about it.

[mychalo]

Have had some conversations with a friend, but mostly just admitting we both masturbate and how often we do it. He brought it up and I guess we were both embarrassed at first but then it got easier to talk about and we wound up making each other laugh. Seems to be easier for us to talk about a lot of stuff now.

[SethfromMI]

depending on the convo just see if it goes in that direction

[Snydergate]

Sometimes I will just bring it up, or try to lead the convo in that direction

[the darkness]

If you two are meant to be talking about it it will just happen naturally kind of thing, the conversation will lead to it.

That's what's happened to me a couple of times anyway.

[Wyatt 13]

i never talked with my friends about that stuff, just jokes about chicks.

[Nathanw23415]

I would like talk about girls ask him if he's ever watched porn then go into the sex topic

[Abhorrence]

Literally just say about it. If you are best friends then surely it won't be awkward? Unless you're like 11.

[MechaSniper]

Make jokes about it, it's a good ice breaker

[KING_OF _99]

I dunno about you but me and my friends are some really sick minded muthafukaz. Almost everything we say has something sexual in it. Be a Man bro!

[SevenRhye]

well yeah I do sometimes talk wit him about that. sometimes is also my bro there

[GoGoDiego]

There was never a day that we always talk about sex and pornstars in our school.

[hockeyfan]

Just say it. A random question and get ur friends reaction.

[The captain]

nothing wrong dude..I do a lot with my best friend and we began one night during a sleepover and both had question about sex

[nish.dexter]

Here are some conversation starters:
"Hey, I was watching porn the other night, and they were __________________. Have you seen it?"
"I couldn't help wanking off last night after I saw this __________________. I'm sure you do it too"
"Check this out. A new way to jerk off. Have you ever tried it? How do you do it usually?"
"Man, she is so hot, I wanna bang her! I heard about this position...."
"My buddy and I were talking about how long we can go without jerking off.. What about you?"

[Failed Algebra]

for me, there's like two kinds of these discussions - one level is casual jokes and teasing with some sexual reference and that happens all the time with friends and nobody seems embarrassed about it, seems to flow naturally. The other, which is what i guess people are talking about here is having a SERIOUS convo with your best friend about intimate stuff like whether and how you JO etc. I wasn't trying to have that convo, it just arose naturally and i guess we both wanted to have that discussion even though each time we start it, it's a little tentative and awkward until we are both sure the other is OK with it. But then yeah, once we reach that point it's good to have that convo so there's someone you can talk to (I don't have a brother, maybe that's why I talked to my friend).

[WengMan3397]

After sports or girls this is probably topic numero uno for most guys our age lol

I think you're probably trolling otherwise mention a girl you like then take the conversation towards the sexual...

[athleticteen]

If you're really close with each other he shouldn't care.

[latinoguy]

My friend and I started talking about his girlfriend and we moved on to porn and then sex lol You could use their crush if theyre single

[Seth Green]

I'm gay and I'm replying HAHA try and stop me!
No, but in all seriousness I wouldn't try and force the conversation topic to sex, it could make things awkward, I would just wait and see if it comes up naturally.

[boytoynamedtroy]

Literally just say about it. If you are best friends then surely it won't be awkward? Unless you're like 11.

LOL at unless you're like 11. That's a good point though.

[YouTube]

for me, there's like two kinds of these discussions - one level is casual jokes and teasing with some sexual reference and that happens all the time with friends and nobody seems embarrassed about it, seems to flow naturally. The other, which is what i guess people are talking about here is having a SERIOUS convo with your best friend about intimate stuff like whether and how you JO etc.

FWIW: Me and two of my close friends ended up at the topic and I immediately assumed it was the first level as @FailedAlgebra calls it and so I was completely joking. And they asked me when I first started masturbating and I have never openly talked about it so I instantly lied (still regret this) and said I have never done it before. And so they were shocked and said next summer they're going to teach me. So my point is that the topic can become of discussion out of the blue, on its own, but if you try you could steer it that way nonchalantly.

[Living For Love]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: