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lonely_gay_boy
January 26th, 2015, 08:34 PM
Well i sometimes get very scared about being who i am, because i know i dont want to change. Im into boys and i like it, but society and people discriminating scares me. Whatcif people dont accept me for who i truly want to be, ive been in the closet for a while, and am scared of telling people. What should i do?
Hideous
January 26th, 2015, 08:41 PM
Just be yourself. If people don't like you, who the heck cares?
First step, come out to whoever you trust the most and loves you. This is important because you will feel like there is someone out there to support you no matter what. Please know that your sexuality is not the only thing that's apart of you, aside from that, it's your personality.
lonely_gay_boy
January 26th, 2015, 09:59 PM
I mean i want people to know, since people already spread rumors, but how do it come out?
Meh Guy
January 29th, 2015, 02:05 PM
lonely_gay_boy you come out by having close friends who earn your trust. Little by little it will become easier. Or, like me, just come out or at least identify yourself as gay/bi etc to anyone who asks. In situations like these, you may have to adopt an "I don't give a shit about your opinion" view. It helps when people try to to put you down or discriminate against your sexuality.
It may be sad, but I've been made fun of for so long and scared of being gay, that one day I just said "fuck it, I am who I am." And I've been happier ever since.
thetransylvanianguy
January 31st, 2015, 04:18 AM
Sadly, you cannot do anything to turn yourself straight. You should take it easy, breathe slowly while you try to clear your mind. Come out to whom you think they're most accepting to you, coming out is your decision.
Jayman101
January 31st, 2015, 05:27 AM
do what you think is best
SethfromMI
January 31st, 2015, 11:20 AM
It is a natural fear to have, but you have to learn to love you for being you
randyboy
January 31st, 2015, 02:53 PM
I think just maybe realise that you are you and yeah so what u like and fancy guys it's the others that have the problem not you.
Message me if you wanna chat
Ian
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