I love this girl who thinks im sweet.

[Coldfire]

I have loved this girl for months. She is 16 and 17 in march. I met her at youth club and immediately fell for her. The problem was... I had anxiety issues and was too shy to tell her in person and instead just silently loved her for months. Up till now i had talked to her lots and became a friend with her. I added her on Facebook and it took her sometime to accept but she accepted... She went away for the weekend so i wrote a message explaining how i felt... Hey i just have to say i think your a amazing person. Your beautiful. Quirky and in my opinion perfect... Im sorry i didn't tell you in person but i have anxiety issues and couldn't build the courage.. I feel empty without and look toward when i see you next.


I constantly checked my phone for a reply (she was getting back late Sunday) and when i got a reply all it was was.... "awh, that's very sweet Michael." i later spoke to her best friend who said she thought i was sweet. I went on to talk it who i love and nothing else was really said.

Thanks,
Cubity

P.S I am not in America...

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[onewingedangel666]

Wether or not it's love, I won't say, but just cause she didn't say that she likes you back, she obviously doesn't not like you.

Just talk to her more, if she wants to come around, she will.

Just don't try too ahrd. And don't get mad if she doesn't want to be with you after a while. I learned my lesson the hard way.

Good luck, Friend!

[maniamsmart]

Wether or not it's love, I won't say, but just cause she didn't say that she likes you back, she obviously doesn't not like you.

Just talk to her more, if she wants to come around, she will.

Just don't try too ahrd. And don't get mad if she doesn't want to be with you after a while. I learned my lesson the hard way.

Good luck, Friend!

This is good advice right here. I would say the same thing, don't try too hard and just talk to her more.

[Elysium]

This is going to sound terrible, but I'm going to be honest: I've said that same exact thing to boys in the past. I say it when I care about them and I'm flattered by their comment, but I don't reciprocate and I don't want to hurt their feelings. I don't have any advice for you beyond what's already been said. If I were the girl in this situation - and I have been a few times - I would always be kind, polite, and friendly, but I would never reject you unless you outright asked me out.

Of course, not everyone is like me, so it's true that she may or may not have feelings for you and/or she may develop them. My hope is that my input has helped put the situation in perspective somewhat.

[fairmaiden]

note; i'm not at home at the moment so I can't write as much but

i'm sorry that this happened to you, but if she doesn't feel the same then obviously it's not meant to be. at least she was sweet about it unlike some rude people out there who don't even reply :/ you'll find someone else.