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Colbyjoe
January 25th, 2015, 10:34 PM
So recently i have been talking to two girls and both are openly showing interest in starting a relationship. The obvious problem is i can only pick one and cant decide. Im hanging out with both and maybe if i dont hit it off with one the decision but my worst fear is hitting it off with both:

One girl is such a great friend, has openly said she wants to hook up but she doesnt seem to be the most loyal girl.

The other is extremely beautiful, is known to not be sexually open when not in a relationship but is extremely fun to be around. i just havent known her for that long.

My question is what can i do to help me decide? Part of me wants to go for the easy hookup but the other part wants to work hard and get rewarded in the long run. I dont want to lead one of them on and hurt them.

SethfromMI
January 25th, 2015, 11:04 PM
I would go with whoever is going to be more loyal. unless you and your one friend just want to do the whole fwb thing

Perfectly Flawed
January 25th, 2015, 11:54 PM
Personally I would go with the girl you haven't known as long. Chances are your friend will still be open to dating if she is still single and the relationship with the "extremely beautiful" girl doesn't work out.

maniamsmart
January 31st, 2015, 08:44 PM
I used to this, and it worked for me. Grab a paper and write down what you like and dislike from both girls and then compare the lists and see. This obviously is accomplished by hanging out with both of them more and getting to know them. You shouldn't be forced into making a decision, so don't feel ashamed of it either if you ever do.