Hopeless Romanticism

[Fritos43]

You know how you crush on someone, get rejected, crush on another person, get rejected again, and the cycle continues? Why do people like me and you get so... "attached", and is it being hopeless, a player, or just obsessive?

[maniamsmart]

We get attached because are humans and have feelings and want people by our side (some don't though :P). I don't think it's hopelessness or obsessive, it's just normal, and it's just us wanting someone to love, and someone to love us. Nothing wrong with that.

[DoodleSnap]

I guess it is just part of a common trait to many human beings; that we want to share, and appreciate with others, the way in which we perceive the world. There will always be the people who will "reject" you, and I know how much that hurts, but it is important to look ahead every once in a while and realise that you are not undesirable, it is just that the right combination hasn't happened yet. My advice would be to literally fall in love; rather than constantly seeking, searching, hoping, make friends. See where the relationships take you, and enjoy the feeling of calm. If you have a crush; speak to them, make a friend, and see what happens. I hope all goes well.