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Metonite
January 24th, 2015, 04:29 PM
Hello,

I'm new here and had a question.

I'm a boy and I've been experiencing this ever since I got to new school (New grade) So basically when I walk on the hallway at school or I'm in the dinner hall theres always somebody looking at me. One day I walked down the stairs with my friend and saw a girl on a bench, she stared me with a phone in her hand, no facial experssions just a neutral face, we kept staring each other until we took a turn to a hallway. Same thing but with other girl and I was coming up the stairs. One day I was walking on a hallway and there was 2 girls on a bench, they both looked at me, I looked at them and then I checked my back that no one was coming behind me and no one was, I was thinking why did they keep looking at me, when I walked past them, they stopped and kept tapping phone, no facial expressions. Sometimes when I go outside I see same girl in the hallway "rarely" and she looks me with a mid smile, not a smile smile but like she's smiling a bit. Once I went past this girl like 3 times in 10 minutes and everytime she kept looking at me. At lunch there's always this one girl who smiles and looks directly at me. There's some more but you got the idea.

I don't know if I've done something bad or if there is some shit going on, but this is so fucking annoying, being stared, there is couple girls that smile everytime they see me, act shy and sometimes even lower their head, I'm too shy to start a talk but once it's started I'm good, but after one person, nope. Are you people being stared at alot? Am I just so fucking uggly that they can't take their eyes of or why just a neutral face and keep staring, Sometimes I feel like shouting at them "Why the fuck are you staring at me?":confused:

maniamsmart
January 25th, 2015, 01:37 AM
Hmm, that is strange, perhaps you should ask one of your close friends what he/she thinks or let them ask one of the people staring at you. I don't really know much about you or why someone could be staring at you in the first place, maybe you're just being paranoid?

DoodleSnap
January 25th, 2015, 06:45 PM
It is possible they could find you interesting to look at, or maybe physically attractive. Not knowing much about the situation, I can't really diagnose as such, but I can say that asking a friend, or asking them themselves is probably the best bet for finding out what is going on. Communication always helps.

CanadianJake
January 25th, 2015, 07:09 PM
Honestly you probably haven't done anything bad at all, the girls could be looking at you because they find you attractive or they are interested in you? I don't know but if you see one staring at you while your walking down and she's sitting on the bench alone, walk over and try talking to her. That's the best advice I can give anyways.

mcdaniels
January 25th, 2015, 07:14 PM
By the sounds of it, these girls like you. Like find you hot. I know that when I was younger I didn't pick up girls signals like that. (I dunno what age u are) if they smile at you, its a good sign. Also I they like fix their hair or twidle their hair they like you, hope this helped