Differences (Girls and Guys)

[Alex_53]

This has been on my mind for a while. Why is it publically acceptable for girls to 'experiment' with other girls' bodies during puberty stages when guys refrain from doing so because they will immediately be labeled gay. I've heard stories of girls showering together and washing each other. Is this true? Also why are guys any different? Is it just that guys don't want to do that kind of thing? Would love to hear your opinions!

[Dutchstranger18]

Don't believe anything on this forum here. It's not normal for an average 12-year old girl that she eats out her friend.
Girls are just a bit easier being naked around eachother thats all. Experimenting is not a thing girls do way more then boys.

[Alex_53]

Don't believe anything on this forum here. It's not normal for an average 12-year old girl that she eats out her friend.
Girls are just a bit easier being naked around eachother thats all. Experimenting is not a thing girls do way more then boys.

I see your point but I'm not talking about 12 year olds eating each other out. That's a touch extreme. I'm talking about as girls get older do they see each other naked, touch or, as I said, shower together?

[Dutchstranger18]

I see your point but I'm not talking about 12 year olds eating each other out. That's a touch extreme. I'm talking about as girls get older do they see each other naked, touch or, as I said, shower together?

Maybe they quicker see eachother naked then boys but touching? I don`t know. There are also a lot of girls who don`t like that

[Seth Green]

It's not remotely abnormal for either genders to experiment with others of the same sex, in fact it happens quite often. If you look around on the forum you will see quite a few people have experimented with people of the same sex.

[Jaseblader]

This has been on my mind for a while. Why is it publically acceptable for girls to 'experiment' with other girls' bodies during puberty stages when guys refrain from doing so because they will immediately be labeled gay. I've heard stories of girls showering together and washing each other. Is this true? Also why are guys any different? Is it just that guys don't want to do that kind of thing? Would love to hear your opinions!

A lot of stereotypes about guys make us seem like macho men and always clothed so to ask a friend to experiment, and their not up for it they just heard do you want to do sexual stuff but it's ok because we will try it, and a lot of guys are gay or bi but social struggle provide enough anxiety for the world so the kid runs off as straight. Some people are raised in homophobic households, some never have sleepovers, and some simply just don't know how to go about asking.

[Andrew.1]

Guys just don't like to think of other guys doing sexual stuff together even though most have in their life like I did with my friends.

[Pensive]

What does it matter?

Girls sexuality is far more fluid than males (perhaps due to the role of a 'macho' man being heterosexual). Psychologists found that girls will change sexual preference on average 3 times in a lifetime, primarily in adolescents. Bad news for the partners!

Girls are more comfortable with touching and physical closeness, they see themselves as having the same bodies and are far more open when complimenting and admiring facets in others. Conversely, girls care far less about the attractiveness of their partners, mainly their own appearance.

In Middle Eastern and Asain cultures in general, men are far more physically 'hands-on', they express themselves in ways that Westerner's may associate strongly with gay men. An irony, but one I have personally noticed in most of my Asain friends who didn't grow up in Western society.

I'd say it is less common in Western cultures, but also less talked about.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

It's not remotely abnormal for either genders to experiment with others of the same sex, in fact it happens quite often. If you look around on the forum you will see quite a few people have experimented with people of the same sex.

I totally agree with this.

[Emolga]

This has been on my mind for a while. Why is it publically acceptable for girls to 'experiment' with other girls' bodies during puberty stages when guys refrain from doing so because they will immediately be labeled gay. I've heard stories of girls showering together and washing each other. Is this true? Also why are guys any different? Is it just that guys don't want to do that kind of thing? Would love to hear your opinions!

Because, for some reason, girls experimenting with girls usually turns guys on, so that means everyone thinks that it's cool. Such bullshit.