Help with Friends!

[bmay2015]

I'm in high school now, almost ready to graduate, and I realized that I don't have a whole lot of guy friends; I have more girl friends, which I know isn't a bad thing. When I was in middle school I had more guy friends than I do now and we've kinda drifted apart. I'm in some of the same classes as some of those "ex-friends," if you want to call them that, and I was looking for help on how to get these guys back into my life before we all go our separate ways for college, and maybe how to make new guy friends.

[Thunderstorm]

Something I'm curious about is why did you drift away from these friends? Did an argument occur? Did it just happen naturally? Did you have different interests/hobbies?

If you're mostly friends with girls that's totally fine. You don't need to try and get your guy friends back because of conformity in dudes being with dudes or gals being with gals. However, if you just want to be friends with them again, maybe join a sport or club they do and you don't. Text them if they have your number with a simple "Hey how are you doing?" Checking up on someone goes a long way. I wish you luck!

[bmay2015]

There was no argument, it just kinda happened naturally.

Thanks for the advice! I know some of them have birthdays coming up so I think I'll text them then.