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HououinKiyoma
January 21st, 2015, 12:56 PM
Well, I changed schools two years ago and there was this girl in my class. She tried talking to me once(asking what was my complex name). I didnt really talk to her then. Then I sent her a friend request and she accepted. A few days later, we had a chat on facebook.
We talked about our respective interests and stuff like that..We continued our chat on Whatsapp and we used to chat almost everyday.
She sometimes says that she enjoys chatting with me and the same goes for me. We have quite a few common interests(from what i could gather from our chats) and now i have a big crush on her. However we never had any real conversation (face to face). I have almost no idea of what she thinks of me apart from a friend... Any suggestions?

maniamsmart
January 21st, 2015, 01:15 PM
Perhaps ask her out on a date? Maybe see what her views are on relationships, if she even wants one, or if she doesn't. I think she does have some interest in you, but I am not sure if that is friendship interest or relationship interest. Ask her to hangout with you sometime and maybe go see a movie, or hang out with some friends, or whatnot. If you think a face to face conversation with her is very important, then make it happen. Maybe Skype? That wouldn't be a bad idea either. You're going to have to generate more conversations and maybe hint at her that you are interested in her and see if she returns the hints.

DoodleSnap
January 22nd, 2015, 06:43 PM
Perhaps ask her out on a date? Maybe see what her views are on relationships, if she even wants one, or if she doesn't. I think she does have some interest in you, but I am not sure if that is friendship interest or relationship interest. Ask her to hangout with you sometime and maybe go see a movie, or hang out with some friends, or whatnot. If you think a face to face conversation with her is very important, then make it happen. Maybe Skype? That wouldn't be a bad idea either. You're going to have to generate more conversations and maybe hint at her that you are interested in her and see if she returns the hints.
This, absolutely. The thing I always used to forget was that it is okay to show interest. If anything, that is the whole idea. If she just wants to be your friend, she will accept it as a friend, and if she wants to try a romantic relationship, then congrats; you are taken. Take it easy and test the waters is my advice.

Dygarde
January 22nd, 2015, 09:52 PM
My girlfriend of 4 years and I met that way. the funniest story was growing up we hated each other and then we became really good friends talking to each other, then we started dating. It sounds like you should have a good foundation to build on if you do start dating and if not, nothing ventured, nothing gained. After reading my girlfriends journal, she had been too afraid to ask for months. Dive in head first and enjoy the fall until you hit the water. It will be an amazing ride.