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Adventure boy
January 18th, 2015, 09:32 PM
Hi I'm 14 and I have been prone mastubating for I think 2-3 years I never new it was bad I thought that was it. I try to mastubate Normal in the shower but if I stop jerking I lose everything and I have to start all over again and when I start stroking my arms and hands feel sore and feels like I'm getting a cramp so I just prone mastubate because I cum like in 2 mins
Please help me
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jssixna
January 18th, 2015, 10:21 PM
Prone masturbating is really dangerous for the penis because it applies a lot of pressure to the base of the penis and can cause severe damage to your penis. You should lay on your back and masturbate. If you can't get a boner in the shower, it may either erectile dysfunction from prone masturbating or you're just not horny enough. Don't stroke your arm anymore then if it causes cramps. Stop prone masturbating before you permanently damage your penis. Stimulate your dick then jerk off..
Second Chance
January 18th, 2015, 10:22 PM
Hi I'm 14 and I have been prone mastubating for I think 2-3 years I never new it was bad I thought that was it. I try to mastubate Normal in the shower but if I stop jerking I lose everything and I have to start all over again and when I start stroking my arms and hands feel sore and feels like I'm getting a cramp so I just prone mastubate because I cum like in 2 mins
Please help me
I'm kind of confused on what your problem is.
Are you asking if masturbating is bad? If so, then just know that masturbating is totally normal and there's nothing wrong with doing it. As long as masturbating is not taking up all of your free time or making you do something stupid like jacking off in public, then you're fine.
If your problem is when you masturbate you cannot get an orgasm (the really good feeling when you climax), then you just need to adjust your technique. A lot of us did not know how to masturbate at first, and it took time to learn how to find what worked for us.
If your problem is that you cannot cum, then I would not worry about that because you're still at the beginning of puberty, and there's plenty of guys who don't cum as late as 15/16.
Adventure boy
January 18th, 2015, 10:26 PM
I'm kind of confused on what your problem is.
Are you asking if masturbating is bad? If so, then just know that masturbating is totally normal and there's nothing wrong with doing it. As long as masturbating is not taking up all of your free time or making you do something stupid like jacking off in public, then you're fine.
If your problem is when you masturbate you cannot get an orgasm (the really good feeling when you climax), then you just need to adjust your technique. A lot of us did not know how to masturbate at first, and it took time to learn how to find what worked for us.
If your problem is that you cannot cum, then I would not worry about that because you're still at the beginning of puberty, and there's plenty of guys who don't cum as late as 15/16.
Hi my questions is that I try to stop prone mastubate on but when I prone mastubate I just lye in my stomach and cup my hand and just get my budge and roll it around until I cum I can ejaculate and get boners but when I'm in the shower I don't get horney and I want to and if I stop stroking I lose everything like the feeling is gone and I have to start all over again and sometimes I just get my penis and just like hold it and like move it around. Sometimes my arm feels tired
Second Chance
January 18th, 2015, 10:35 PM
Oh, I get you now. Prone masturbating is totally fine, and it just seems like you are more comfortable with that rather than using your hand. Personally, I would stick to prone masturbating if that works best for you especially if you get a lot of pleasure from that. There's some folks who say that prone masturbating is bad, but I think it is just another way to jack off. Some guys are like you in that they start off prone masturbating but eventually start using their hand. It is not like masturbating prone is going to hurt you.
If you want to try to masturbate using your hand, then you just have to make sure you're really horny when doing that. I used to be just like you and would masturbate prone, and I did not learn how to use my hand to masturbate until much later. It took me a while to learn how to masturbate using my hand, and I was just like you because my arm would get tired, too. You can try masturbating prone for a little while until you get close to an orgasm, then you can flip over and try to use your hand to finish off. It might take a little while to learn how to do that, but you'll eventually learn.
Also, there's a lot of guys who have a hard time jacking off standing up, and you just might be one of those people. You might want to sit down in the shower and see if that helps when you jack off in there.
jssixna
January 18th, 2015, 10:38 PM
Um search on google prone masturbating WILL ruin your dick if you do it continuously..
JerryD
January 18th, 2015, 11:51 PM
Um search on google prone masturbating WILL ruin your dick if you do it continuously..
I totally agree with Jssixna, since I didn’t know what “Prone masturbating” was, I Google search it too, for those who don’t know what it means it’s basically masturbating on your stomach. Doing so put pressure on the base of the penis which leads to a serious condition known to causes difficulty of achieving an orgasm. So seriously - stop doing it!!! Perhaps take a month off wanking, better yet see your doctor.
Adventure boy
January 19th, 2015, 12:37 AM
I totally agree with Jssixna, since I didn’t know what “Prone masturbating” was, I Google search it too, for those who don’t know what it means it’s basically masturbating on your stomach. Doing so put pressure on the base of the penis which leads to a serious condition known to causes difficulty of achieving an orgasm. So seriously - stop doing it!!! Perhaps take a month off wanking, better yet see your doctor.
I don't put pressure on my penis I like go on my knees a
Straya
January 19th, 2015, 01:10 AM
I don't put pressure on my penis I like go on my knees a
just do whats comfortable for you man but like the others said for somepeople its really hard to jerk while standing up i know i have to be really horny to do it cause if im standing too long i loose interest and i much prefer sitting down or laying down while doing it
Dennis98
January 19th, 2015, 12:43 PM
Hurting during prone mast. are just stereotypes that are created by some group of teens or persons without even basic medical knowledge . It isn't harmful at all ... Only thing you can get is redness of your foreskin , if you are uncut ...
shybi15
January 19th, 2015, 12:52 PM
The fact that prone masturbating is harmfull is just a myth. Its not bad for you, ive done it alot, nothing will happen to you. Trust me.
Hermes
January 19th, 2015, 01:27 PM
I'm not convinced those who say masturbaing in the prone position have any evidence to support their position (no pun intended) but I can certainly understand if you want to play safe by switching to another way.
Like you my first experience of masturbating was in the prone position but in my case I would hold my penis with my hand and then hump. When I discovered other guys did it a different way - not prone and with their hand moving instead of their hips, I decided I wanted to switch and, like you, found it hard to cum the new way. I think it is just a case of what you get used to, and possibly a bit of stamina in your arm muscles, and in my case I decided I would stop doing it prone and only do it the new way. If on any given occasion I didn't cum I'd just try again another time. I figured eventually I would get horny enough the new way would be bound to work and it did.
In your case I would not try to change too much at once and masturbating in the shower doesn't work so well for everyone - I can cum that way but it takes me way longer than in bed and several other people here have reported the same. Instead I'd try another lying down position for example on your back or on your side and just persevere with it.
BraydenD
January 19th, 2015, 03:50 PM
I was the same, i couldnt get it on with my hand, but slowly i was able to make the change
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