How do you get over someone?

[Dan1234]

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[dame]

You just got to act like they aren't shit, talk to other girls. It sucks, but you start getting over them w/ time.

[CanadianJake]

Ugh nothing is more hard then having feelings for a girl who doesn't feel the same way. I am sort of in the same predicament but this is over the internet and I've known this girl for 3-4 years even though we haven't met up. Long story short I've had feelings for her, for the longest of time I guess they've been off and on per se I think the word is either way just a few days ago she told me that she doesn't feel the same way about me, never have. I mean yeah I'm upset over it and I'm still holding hopes that we'll end up together someday which will probably never happen. Either way I think what you need to do is find something that interests you, find something that keeps you busy but yet thinking about what you need to do in event of what's keeping you busy if you get what I mean. The best way is to try to talk to other girls as well, try to get yourself out there. I mean for all you know if she sees you talking to other girls, she may start to feel jealous and might realize she may have made a mistake saying that to you. But there's a high probability that it won't happen. Either way just get yourself out there to make yourself busy but also start talking to other girls as well, for all you know you might fall for someone else who will feel the same way about you. That's my advice anyways.

[Dan1234]

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[CanadianJake]

You're welcome Dan1234, yeah I know how you feel though but I guess in a way it's best she now tells you to move on then continues to lead you on then finds another guy then stabs you in the back sort of thing. I don't understand why she would tell you that she loves you then two weeks later tell you to move on, personally something must have happened with her though not you. She could have not led you on, she could have actually felt something for you but maybe someone told her not to go for you? school work getting in the way of her wanting to date you so she wants to focus on that before a relationship? maybe her parents didn't agree to dating anyone? I don't know but may I ask how old she is? it might have a baring on that as well depending.

[Dan1234]

You're welcome Dan1234, yeah I know how you feel though but I guess in a way it's best she now tells you to move on then continues to lead you on then finds another guy then stabs you in the back sort of thing. I don't understand why she would tell you that she loves you then two weeks later tell you to move on, personally something must have happened with her though not you. She could have not led you on, she could have actually felt something for you but maybe someone told her not to go for you? school work getting in the way of her wanting to date you so she wants to focus on that before a relationship? maybe her parents didn't agree to dating anyone? I don't know but may I ask how old she is? it might have a baring on that as well depending.

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[CanadianJake]

Right I understand her being in some rough relationships in the past but yeah your sort of right on her making her own decisions but at the end of the day after you do turn 18, you are now technically an adult which makes you the right to make your own decisions. But when it comes to relationships it is her choice on who she wants to date. She may have some reasons behind it but I suggest try talking to her about it. I mean it's fine she wants you to move on but she needs to somewhat explain herself on why she's ignoring you, maybe she's not ignoring you in the way you think. She could be just trying to give you some space so that way you can have time to move on, that's the other possibility. I still suggest to try texting her, try saying how come we're like this now. We went from being good friends to what? ignoring me isn't gonna help this situation. Either way I just suggest try contacting her, see what happens.

[maniamsmart]

Speak to other girls and find the good in others that you could not find in her.