Does She Possibly Like Me?

[moderjacobin]

So I was talking with a friend online, I've known her for 2-3 years, but online in the past few months have we ever chatted, we played some chess, and only today did we have our first genuine conversation online. She asked about what I want to be and why, where I want to go to school, where I was born and more. I asked her the same, and we just talked. Then randomly she linked me to "Do I Wanna Know?" -Arctic Monkeys and just said to listen. I would think that she was just sharing her musical tastes with me, but because it was so random in the middle of a conversation and because all she said was to listen I can't help but think she may have wanted me to analyze the lyrics as allusion to her feelings. The randomness just really confused me, is there any possible meaning behind this? We continued our conversation for like an hour or two afterwards. Plus I forgot to mention, at school she interacts with me very differently. When we spoke online she had a very different tone, was more open, asked lots of questions etc. Does she possibly like me is what I'm wondering.

[Vilnius]

I think you should try to talk to her more before you decide. Also, how do you feel about her? If you like her, you should tell her later on. Try to start some conversation with her at school to really get to know her, because it would be better to expand your friendship with her to a more personal level.

[moderjacobin]

I think you should try to talk to her more before you decide. Also, how do you feel about her? If you like her, you should tell her later on. Try to start some conversation with her at school to really get to know her, because it would be better to expand your friendship with her to a more personal level.
Yeah that's what I was thinking. I had never really thought of her as possibly being more than a friend until this happened. But when I gave it thought I realized I'd enjoy being with her. It's actually surprising how well we know each other already even though we rarely spoke to each other the three years we've known each other. None the less, I was thinking of dropping a hint to see if she does have feelings for me. She'll ask me what I'm doing at the moment, I'll tell her listening to music, then she always asks what I'm listening to, then I'll link her to a specific song and gauge her reaction. I've never been in a relationship so this is all new to me lol

[Body odah Man]

So I was talking with a friend online, I've known her for 2-3 years, but online in the past few months have we ever chatted, we played some chess, and only today did we have our first genuine conversation online. She asked about what I want to be and why, where I want to go to school, where I was born and more. I asked her the same, and we just talked. Then randomly she linked me to "Do I Wanna Know?" -Arctic Monkeys and just said to listen. I would think that she was just sharing her musical tastes with me, but because it was so random in the middle of a conversation and because all she said was to listen I can't help but think she may have wanted me to analyze the lyrics as allusion to her feelings. The randomness just really confused me, is there any possible meaning behind this? We continued our conversation for like an hour or two afterwards. Plus I forgot to mention, at school she interacts with me very differently. When we spoke online she had a very different tone, was more open, asked lots of questions etc. Does she possibly like me is what I'm wondering.

You're going to have to ask her. It's hard to analyze the feelings of another whm you don't know.

[maniamsmart]

She could just be bored, as bland as it may sound. At school she is busy and doing work so she is less open with you. At home she has more free time and can be more open with you when she wants to talk to someone. This doesn't mean that it can't develop into something bigger than just a conversation out of loneliness or boredom, but because of the lack of knowledge we have about this girl, it doesn't seem like she likes you, but just seems like she needs someone to talk to. I link my friends certain songs all the time, and so do friends of mine. I'd say it was more her sharing her taste of music rather than trying to make you think about the lyrics. Unless she did ask after what you thought about the song and about the message in the song, then she may have wanted you to do that, but I am not sure if she asked you that.

If you are however interested in this girl, you should for sure keep talking to her and maybe approach her at school more often. She does have interest in you clearly, but whether that interest level is at a friendship level or relationship level is something you are going to have to figure out through talking to her some more.