Is he straight, or nahh...

[Prettyboy_Jah]

My bestfriend -ish (idk what to define us) ive know him for a little over a year, and he's supposedly "straight". In the beginning everything was, until his parents read our convos ans questioned him, asking if he were gay. He said he was straight and tried to defend me, but that didn't work, and now his parents strongly dislike me. Anyways, we've made out, and given each other hand jobs. No one knows about that, but EVERYONE assumes we've fucked, based off of how close we are physically, and socially (i never noticed) . Late last year he would sometimes define us as "best-friends", but other times "Friends with benefits". This year our friendship is on and off, though he still talks about every girl sexual, and text me EVERY-TIME he fucks a girl, whether on or off... Anyways when its on we are master bating in the bathroom at the same time, And one time i caught him peeking over the stall watching me. i knew for a while he was watching me, and then when i looked at him, he tucked down, and made up an excuse. SO, MY QUESTION IS, based off of my summarization would u directly assume he's bi, or is there a chances hes actually straight being that he argues to me and everyone else that he's straight. And what would you suggest i do.

[Thunderstorm]

You don't really need to do anything. It sounds like he is a just a curious dude. If he's had sex with a girl and liked it, then he's straight. If everyone thinks he's straight, then he's straight. He may just be curious about other guys in general. I doubt he's gay, or even bi.

[phuckphace]

he obviously has some bisexual tendencies that he doesn't want the whole world to know about, nothing mysterious about it. part of being in the closet involves pretending to be straight for practical reasons.

I would say just go with it, but 13 is a little too young imo. if he's also your age it sounds like he's in way over his head and needs to slow down before something bad happens, like pregnancy.

also, don't masturbate in public places, that's kind of fucked up. take that stuff to the bedroom dude.

[pconnor2001]

Some good advice as posted dude!

[Thaliacea]

He is probably bi .

[LilEmma]

At least bi-curious, i think... And his parents have no right to mess with his sexuality!!!

[Seth Green]

Where can I get myself a best friend like that, ya know what I'm saying?hahahaaaasolonely.

Seriously though, from what you've said he is without a doubt at least bi curious, maybe even full on bisexual.

[lonely_gay_boy]

I wish i had friends like that

[Zachary G]

It sounds to me like he is on the curious side and is very comfortable with you in expressing his sexual curiosities. I wouldnt do anything about it, unless of course you are uncomfortable with the way things are between you; if not, then I would say just go with the flow and enjoy it while you have it and let him come to terms with his own sexuality at his own pace. As far as the parents go, I think it was wrong of them to attack him that way, that can only hinder his development.

[Uranus]

he obviously has some bisexual tendencies that he doesn't want the whole world to know about, nothing mysterious about it. part of being in the closet involves pretending to be straight for practical reasons.

I would say just go with it, but 13 is a little too young imo. if he's also your age it sounds like he's in way over his head and needs to slow down before something bad happens, like pregnancy.

also, don't masturbate in public places, that's kind of fucked up. take that stuff to the bedroom dude.

Best post here ^

[SethfromMI]

You don't really need to do anything. It sounds like he is a just a curious dude. If he's had sex with a girl and liked it, then he's straight. If everyone thinks he's straight, then he's straight. He may just be curious about other guys in general. I doubt he's gay, or even bi.

well I had sex with a girl and liked it. I have also had sex with a guy and liked it. I am dating a girl right now. am I straight?

[Thunderstorm]

well I had sex with a girl and liked it. I have also had sex with a guy and liked it. I am dating a girl right now. am I straight?

Yeah you're straight. You can be physically attracted to someone and like it but that's only one part of sexuality. Companionship is another part and you have a companionship with a girl, therefore you are a straight. You can like the sexual feelings you get with a guy but if you don't love them emotionally, then can you really be bisexual or gay?

[Luminous]

Yeah you're straight. You can be physically attracted to someone and like it but that's only one part of sexuality. Companionship is another part and you have a companionship with a girl, therefore you are a straight. You can like the sexual feelings you get with a guy but if you don't love them emotionally, then can you really be bisexual or gay?

No, because he never said he doesn't romantically like guys. Maybe he's been in a relationship with a guy? IMO, you're way off here, making assumptions without sufficient proof. Also, to what you said in your other post, what everyone thinks of you does not actually make you that thing. If everyone thought I won a contest, does that mean I did? No. It's the same thing with sexuality. If they don't know for sure it doesn't matter.

[SethfromMI]

Yeah you're straight. You can be physically attracted to someone and like it but that's only one part of sexuality. Companionship is another part and you have a companionship with a girl, therefore you are a straight. You can like the sexual feelings you get with a guy but if you don't love them emotionally, then can you really be bisexual or gay?

you really don't know what you're talking about man

[randyboy]

Thats a tuff one not in a relationship yet but I do know I am gay hope that helps!